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Nov 7, 2009 7:14 PM CSTChange yourself?
Lammycool
LammycoolLammycoolKöln, Nordrhein-Westfalen, Germany29 Threads 5 Polls 372 Posts

Change yourself?(Vote Below)

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Yes, of course.
11
23%
no, he/she should take me as I am.
26
55%
Never!
10
21%
Total Votes
47
Imagine, you find a profile that is interesting. You`ll have a look at what he/she is looking for. As you see, there are one or two things, where it seems to be not quite fit. Things like smoke, drinks, religion or body type, does not matter. Things for you, where you possibly could change yourself. But, he/she is perfect for you! Would you change a thing, for to get a chance, with him/her?
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Nov 7, 2009 7:30 PM CST Change yourself?
spiderbulgaria
spiderbulgariaspiderbulgariaYambol, Bulgaria9 Threads 250 Posts
Lammycool: Imagine, you find a profile that is interesting. You`ll have a look at what he/she is looking for. As you see, there are one or two things, where it seems to be not quite fit. Things like smoke, drinks, religion or body type, does not matter. Things for you, where you possibly could change yourself. But, he/she is perfect for you! Would you change a thing, for to get a chance, with him/her?


I am not changing a thing for anybody and i don't expect a person to change for me either, they either like me or they don't. Once you start going down that path you are asking for trouble in my opinion.wine
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Nov 7, 2009 7:50 PM CST Change yourself?
It would depend on what it was I should change.
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Nov 7, 2009 7:52 PM CST Change yourself?
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Lammycool: Imagine, you find a profile that is interesting. You`ll have a look at what he/she is looking for. As you see, there are one or two things, where it seems to be not quite fit. Things like smoke, drinks, religion or body type, does not matter. Things for you, where you possibly could change yourself. But, he/she is perfect for you! Would you change a thing, for to get a chance, with him/her?


I think compromise is the key word here.
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Nov 8, 2009 10:51 AM CST Change yourself?
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
Lammycool: Imagine, you find a profile that is interesting. You`ll have a look at what he/she is looking for. As you see, there are one or two things, where it seems to be not quite fit. Things like smoke, drinks, religion or body type, does not matter. Things for you, where you possibly could change yourself. But, he/she is perfect for you! Would you change a thing, for to get a chance, with him/her?


I dont think you should just change yourself for someone, but if you think you are perfect and dont need to change something in you they God speed.

How arrogant some people are to say, "i'm me; I'm not changing anything". What you are pretty much saying is,"i'm perfect and great and if you dont get me then get bent".

I want to change until the day I die. I want to be learning and evolving to be the best person I can be. We all make mistakes but I want to learn from them.
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Created: Nov 2009
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