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Jan 18, 2008 9:44 PM CSTDo you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Invierno
InviernoInviernoEdmonton, Alberta, Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 303 Posts

Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?(Vote Below)

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Yes, I think I will fall in love again
138
44%
Maybe, I am crossing my fingers!! LOL
81
26%
No, way, I will never fall in love again
29
9%
I have never been in love
20
6%
Are you kidding me? Not a chance!
22
7%
For sure!! I will find love here! BTW, let's talk
22
7%
Total Votes
312
happy place
Close your eyes and think… were you really in-love? Did you really experience true love during this relationship? While you are putting your thoughts together, let's take a short time off .. here is a song I found about “Invierno” – yeap!! My screenname!! – never heard it before!! Nice lyrics!! Although, it is in Spanish …LOL popcorn

Llueve afuera,llueve además
Está desierta la ciudad
Mientras tú y yo nos refugiamos en la eternidad
No siento frío cerca de ti
Dentro de mi brilla el sol

Invierno,Invierno,Invierno
Se cae el cielo y que mas da
Tenemos nuestro mundo
El día sigue siendo azul si estamos juntos
No importa nada más
Invierno!

Tanto ruido,tanta soledad
Gente que corre sin parar
Tras la puerta ese universo de infinita paz
Necesito la calma que tu me das

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How to fall in love again?? Most of us still remember the feeling of falling in love. When we were in the presence of our beloved our hearts pounded, our hands got clammy, and we had trouble breathing. Everything about them was special, unique, and wonderful… You remember, right? If we are really lucky we will remember/experience again this kind of falling in love with a totally new person!

So again, do you think you will ever fall in love again?
uncertain

I KNOW I WILL!!
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Jan 18, 2008 9:44 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Invierno
InviernoInviernoEdmonton, Alberta Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 303 Posts
happy place
Close your eyes and think… were you really in-love? Did you really experience true love during this relationship? While you are putting your thoughts together, let's take a short time off .. here is a song I found about “Invierno” – yeap!! My screenname!! – never heard it before!! Nice lyrics!! Although, it is in Spanish …LOL popcorn

Llueve afuera,llueve además
Está desierta la ciudad
Mientras tú y yo nos refugiamos en la eternidad
No siento frío cerca de ti
Dentro de mi brilla el sol

Invierno,Invierno,Invierno
Se cae el cielo y que mas da
Tenemos nuestro mundo
El día sigue siendo azul si estamos juntos
No importa nada más
Invierno!

Tanto ruido,tanta soledad
Gente que corre sin parar
Tras la puerta ese universo de infinita paz
Necesito la calma que tu me das

Back to the poll...

How to fall in love again?? Most of us still remember the feeling of falling in love. When we were in the presence of our beloved our hearts pounded, our hands got clammy, and we had trouble breathing. Everything about them was special, unique, and wonderful… You remember, right? If we are really lucky we will remember/experience again this kind of falling in love with a totally new person!

So again, do you think you will ever fall in love again?
uncertain

I KNOW I WILL!!
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Jan 19, 2008 6:47 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Mort_A_Moose
Mort_A_MooseMort_A_MooseAthabasca, Canada15 Threads 341 Posts
Sun rises in the east and sets in the west,

Morning's first breath does fill up my chest,

And when I look skywards and see peaceful dove,

Of course I know someday I shall love.
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Jan 20, 2008 10:45 AM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Invierno
InviernoInviernoEdmonton, Alberta Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 303 Posts
Mort_A_Moose: Sun rises in the east and sets in the west,

Morning's first breath does fill up my chest,

And when I look skywards and see peaceful dove,

Of course I know someday I shall love.


This is lovely M!!


Every night I fall asleep
And fall in love again;
We walk along the ocean shore
I kiss your lips and then;
Once more the dream is over
And reality sets in,
So I just pray to fall asleep
And fall in love again.

happy valentines day
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Jan 20, 2008 7:58 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada26 Threads 1 Polls 259 Posts
I am almost 22, and am going to be getting divorced. Seperated for 6+ months now. Anyways, yes I think I will love again. Was it really love? I don't honestly know anymore. Looking back, I know I settled and yes we had good times....but we had a lot of bad times too and I think we both should of seen it and perhaps parted ways instead of hanging onto something that we were both unhappy in. Right now, I feel I can't really find someone, or see myself even kissing someone else after being with the same person for 5 years.... but I am ready to try to move on. And I think if the right person comes along, it'll just be right, and happen, and it will be good. In the mean time, I am just trying to put myself out there, meet new people, make friends, and sometimes a friendship can turn into more.
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Jan 21, 2008 3:22 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Dawn50
Dawn50Dawn50Ottawa Valley, Ontario Canada196 Threads 1,496 Posts
I welcome love if it does happen purple heart but i do not sit around thinking about it , I continue to count my blessings every day and just enjoy life with open arms heart beating

wine
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Feb 9, 2008 3:31 AM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Invierno
InviernoInviernoEdmonton, Alberta Canada14 Threads 1 Polls 303 Posts
wine
When you love someone and the relationship ends suddenly or you were betrayed in some way, it can seem if you will never be able to love again. To love, we have to give everything we have from within ourselves and that can feel like taking a big risk, but again, not loving means a life without intimacy. So, wouldn’t you take that risk? I would!! Yes, we can love again!! and the beauty of love is that you will love other people in different ways – what a wonderful feeling, when you realize you have fallen in love again and memories of the old love can still be special but they no longer prevent you from finding new happiness. Let’s learn to love again!!
Now, following this note, I hope we can get a date from this site soon.. once at least will be nice!! LOL grin
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Feb 9, 2008 2:01 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Mort_A_Moose
Mort_A_MooseMort_A_MooseAthabasca, Canada15 Threads 341 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: I am almost 22, and am going to be getting divorced. Seperated for 6+ months now. Anyways, yes I think I will love again. Was it really love? I don't honestly know anymore. Looking back, I know I settled and yes we had good times....but we had a lot of bad times too and I think we both should of seen it and perhaps parted ways instead of hanging onto something that we were both unhappy in. Right now, I feel I can't really find someone, or see myself even kissing someone else after being with the same person for 5 years.... but I am ready to try to move on. And I think if the right person comes along, it'll just be right, and happen, and it will be good. In the mean time, I am just trying to put myself out there, meet new people, make friends, and sometimes a friendship can turn into more.


As the famous quote goes "Tis better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all"

Remember the good, forget the bad, and move on, for each day the beauty of a new sunrise shall arrive and life will go on.

Da Moose
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Feb 9, 2008 2:10 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Mort_A_Moose
Mort_A_MooseMort_A_MooseAthabasca, Canada15 Threads 341 Posts
Invierno: When you love someone and the relationship ends suddenly or you were betrayed in some way, it can seem if you will never be able to love again. To love, we have to give everything we have from within ourselves and that can feel like taking a big risk, but again, not loving means a life without intimacy. So, wouldn’t you take that risk? I would!! Yes, we can love again!! and the beauty of love is that you will love other people in different ways – what a wonderful feeling, when you realize you have fallen in love again and memories of the old love can still be special but they no longer prevent you from finding new happiness. Let’s learn to love again!!
Now, following this note, I hope we can get a date from this site soon.. once at least will be nice!! LOL


A betrayal of love can indeed feel like the icy breath of the deepest winter upon the heart.....but with the realizatiion that spring shall come, the potential for a warming of the heart is a given.

And what is love? Is it not waking up to the sun streaming into a bedroom with the promise of a new and exciting day? Is it not the sound of children laughing for apparently no reason? The smell of a rose? The colors in a rainbow? The warmth of a fireplace on a cold winter's day? A whisper promising a kiss at the end of a perfect day?

What? Just once when it comes to a date? :-)

Da Moose
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Feb 9, 2008 2:13 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
Mort_A_Moose
Mort_A_MooseMort_A_MooseAthabasca, Canada15 Threads 341 Posts
Dawn50: I welcome love if it does happen but i do not sit around thinking about it , I continue to count my blessings every day and just enjoy life with open arms


Indeed - a beautiful way to look upon life
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Feb 9, 2008 8:49 PM CST Do you think you could ever love again after a separation/divorce?
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada288 Threads 1 Polls 7,330 Posts
I sure hope so, life would be pretty lonely without having someone to love in your life again.
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Created: Jan 2008
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