On the 1st Date, who should pay? (171)
featherstevescarborough, North Yorkshire, England UK4 Threads 2,532 PostsSundown40: Yes, Sultry...Steve is always a gentleman first. Not very many men like him left in the RW. One of a kind...and a good friend too
you know your included as well sundown , thanks for those kind words , your also a kind nice lady 
feathersteve: your welcome
Yorkshire men get their hands in their pockets, you got to be joking!! They prefer to go dutch!!!
LaVerdad: Yorkshire men get their hands in their pockets, you got to be joking!! They prefer to go dutch!!!
give him a break To my mind it is whoever does the asking.
Always been the norm for the guy to pay on the first date But times have on and I guess it would be whoever asked
Always been the norm for the guy to pay on the first date But times have on and I guess it would be whoever asked
LaVerdad: Yorkshire men get their hands in their pockets, you got to be joking!! They prefer to go dutch!!!
hey dont judge us all the samefeathersteve: you know your included as well sundown , thanks for those kind words , your also a kind nice lady
Awwhhh...thank you Steve
I only tell the truth, and some lucky lady is going to grab you up...and if they need my two cents worth...it's all good 
sultryash: give him a break
As long as he wined and dined you with the finest of foods and drink. The bill must not be less than $1000, for the food alone. Now the drinks bill will be higher as you shall be sipping on pink vintage champagne out of 19c waterford crystal glasses, that could potentially cost $10,000 a bottle.
feathersteve: hey dont judge us all the same
Sundown40: Awwhhh...thank you Steve I only tell the truth, and some lucky lady is going to grab you up...and if they need my two cents worth...it's all good
well, guys and gals have a great day/night wherever you are, i am outta here..........time for me to get my lazy bones ready for work.....ciao !!
LaVerdad: As long as he wined and dined you with the finest of foods and drink. The bill must not be less than $1000, for the food alone. Now the drinks bill will be higher as you shall be sipping on pink vintage champagne out of 19c waterford crystal glasses, that could potentially cost $10,000 a bottle.
jealousy will get you everywhere LVsultryash: well, guys and gals have a great day/night wherever you are, i am outta here..........time for me to get my lazy bones ready for work.....ciao !!
sultry sultryash: well, guys and gals have a great day/night wherever you are, i am outta here..........time for me to get my lazy bones ready for work.....ciao !!
Have a good day at work Sultry! Thank you again dear
Think i'm headed for bed AGAIN
feathersteve: jealousy will get you everywhere LV
Could not be that way if I was under interrogation!
jokerlips: go dutch means each pay for their own bill
go dutch also sounds like a good idea
LaVerdad: As long as he wined and dined you with the finest of foods and drink. The bill must not be less than $1000, for the food alone. Now the drinks bill will be higher as you shall be sipping on pink vintage champagne out of 19c waterford crystal glasses, that could potentially cost $10,000 a bottle.
LV man i have gotta to give it to you for class !!
you are indeed my kinda galBut i am a cheap date sweetie !! I don not drink alcohol, i am a vegan so bring me a plate of rabbit food and a nice non alcoholic beverage and i am ready to dance the night away.....
In response to: crazy_surfer101: wat do u mean by go dutch
scousedon: Share the expense
In all close countries, Dutch people are known to be miser. They for sure won't pay even half the bill.
It is known that a Dutch family of 4 will order only 1 menu: one plate for each.
On holidays abroad, they bring their own food and eat it in the car on a parking lot. In a hotel, I've seen people bringing their own eggs to be prepared for the next breakfast!
I think English should find another name for sharing the expense!
it would b nice if d guy offer 2 pay on d 1st date, as in my opinion it just shows he's a gentleman, hence this wouldnt b a question in my vietnamese culture as it is expected that guys r to pay not only for the 1st date but pretty much on all occasions...
RedLyonyss: So okay, I was just curious.
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
If he insist on paying..then I pay for the tip leaving it on the table.
RedLyonyss: So okay, I was just curious.
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
I always offer to pay my half of the bill on a first date. Sometimes the guys will divide up the bills other times they insist on paying. Mind you the first day is always just coffee so not a big bill to cover anyways.
LaVerdad: As long as he wined and dined you with the finest of foods and drink. The bill must not be less than $1000, for the food alone. Now the drinks bill will be higher as you shall be sipping on pink vintage champagne out of 19c waterford crystal glasses, that could potentially cost $10,000 a bottle.
Tell us how Iraqis manage this. Is your 'wine and dine' scenerio common in Baghdad?
RLML48: Not a good idea!
Why not ? It sounds like a plan.
It could potentially also be a foot race. The loser being caught by the maitre d' and forced to pay.Amenda: You are too cool, krisha...call his father? !!!
but if his father didn't pay then you will call his grandfather, right? lol
but if his father didn't pay then you will call his grandfather, right? lol
no not his grandfather,his sugar mommy but i have to run fast after she pay the bill
a real ma has hospitality in his fingers 
yes 99.9% of the time
if you can not ...tell hes your busy working and get a job...
yes 99.9% of the time
if you can not ...tell hes your busy working and get a job...
krisha: no not his grandfather,his sugar mommy but i have to run fast after she pay the bill
oh, dear...sugar mummy...lol
you funny coolAmenda: oh, dear...sugar mummy...lol you funny cool
hello sweety
..well,if he have a sugar daddy so i will know who he is krisha: hello sweety ..well,if he have a sugar daddy so i will know who he is
laugh:
maybe You know that, and at least I know the meaning of "sugar parents"
...
Amenda: laugh: maybe
You know that, and at least I know the meaning of "sugar parents"
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You know that, and at least I know the meaning of "sugar parents"
...
how are darling?have someone to date in christmass? 
krisha: how are darling?have someone to date in christmass?
God should pay - if you're an altar boy.
RobertC2: God should pay - if you're an altar boy.
i know u will pay.
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