On the 1st Date, who should pay? (171)
Amendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 PostsBoban1: lets compromise ....and run away before the bill comes ....
seekndestroy: .... and i would even offer to pay......... on one condition of course !!!!!
You get your 3 seconds worth!
LaVerdad: You get your 3 seconds worth!
roger that.....
game on !!!!
scousedon: I always pay on first date but also accept a token gesture of a drink as in my experience it lets the women feel good to show she is not taking advantage of a "free lunch"
Nice! ... i like it very much politic
RobertC2: Ciao! Ciao! guys and gals........
Have fun without me!
Have fun without me!
Enjoy your day Robert
somechick: I don't think it makes a difference who pays.
It makes a big difference who pays; I firmly believe in paying. Also, many women judge a man by his actions during this moment in a date. Some of you will disagree and that is okay; however, a lot, and I think the most, of women still expect a man to pick of the cost of the date.
Pay and pay attention.
Happy hunting chaps ......
Happy hunting chaps ......
For I will pay for myself
Your advocates should go through all "pro and contra" and come to conclusion about payment then You have to sign agreement about it ofcourse always the man,if he did not,i have to call his father
krisha: ofcourse always the man,if he did not,i have to call his father
You are too cool, krisha...call his father? !!!
but if his father didn't pay then you will call his grandfather, right? lol
Amenda: You are too cool, krisha...call his father? !!!
but if his father didn't pay then you will call his grandfather, right? lol
but if his father didn't pay then you will call his grandfather, right? lol
both have passed so have fun trying to call them. guess Trisha pays her own way? for once.
a gentleman always pays
rebelluvr: a gentleman always pays
Tradition will always be the winner in the end!
LaVerdad: In that case on the first date take them to the cheapest greasy spoon you can find at two for the price of one
LaVerdad - for the pleasure of my company YOU should pay........ I'll lick the grease off you after for free!
i think on the frist date
after have dinner with him
then go to the cinema or other palces
you can choose one to pay
i mean at least seems like fair
coz if no second date
you are even
my 2 cents
after have dinner with him
then go to the cinema or other palces
you can choose one to pay
i mean at least seems like fair
coz if no second date
you are even
my 2 cents
yolanda109: i think on the frist date
after have dinner with him
then go to the cinema or other palces
you can choose one to pay
i mean at least seems like fair
coz if no second date
you are even
my 2 cents
after have dinner with him
then go to the cinema or other palces
you can choose one to pay
i mean at least seems like fair
coz if no second date
you are even
my 2 cents
keep your two cents - it costs more than that to do all that!
All that on a first date?
You don't want much, do you?
(only joking!
)I pay no matter what the number of the date...duuno, just me I guess. I don't mind the woman getting me the odd beer, but hotel or dinner, I pay.
Now, if she is loaded, then I pay 'in kind' hahaha
Now, if she is loaded, then I pay 'in kind' hahaha
Steve5721: I pay no matter what the number of the date...duuno, just me I guess. I don't mind the woman getting me the odd beer, but hotel or dinner, I pay.
Now, if she is loaded, then I pay 'in kind' hahaha
Now, if she is loaded, then I pay 'in kind' hahaha
I'll pay for the odd drink, but if she wants to do naughty things to my body SHE can pay for the hotel, dammit!
RedLyonyss: So okay, I was just curious.
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
what does 'go dutch' mean ?
man should pay
I think it should be dutch on a first date .
no us men should pay on the first date jmo
feathersteve: no us men should pay on the first date jmo
and tradition will always rule
RedLyonyss: So okay, I was just curious.
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
I always assume on a first date that it will be dutch and reach for my wallet, but I have to admit I respect a guy more if he offers to pay. I guess I am a little old fashioned even though I do not mind paying at all. Later as dates progress I asume it will either be dutch or we will take turns grabbing the check.
What do you think?
PS: No I do not run out on a check but I have had a date suggest it, so I added that option in. I never found out what he did for a second date...
Being an old fashioned guy I would pay for it
sultryash: and tradition will always rule
for you i would pay on the second aswellfeathersteve: for you i would pay on the second aswell
you are a gentleman , thank you
feathersteve: no us men should pay on the first date jmo
Yes, Sultry...Steve is always a gentleman first. Not very many men like him left in the RW. One of a kind...and a good friend too
sultryash: you are a gentleman , thank you
your welcome
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