be patient or cut and run (33)

Jan 12, 2010 9:05 AM CST be patient or cut and run
Sparky6420
Sparky6420Sparky6420North Vernon, Indiana USA12 Threads 3 Polls 217 Posts
heavensmile: so...what u wait for? nothing. better dont waste time for nothing.

Like I said there were circumstances that had nothing to do with the two of us and how I feel about this person. Honestly, I have found that when I leap into situations without counting costs, someone usually ends up being hurt. Moving too fast can destroy a good thing. Of course, moving too slow can also destroy a relationship. So communicating wants and needs is important.
Jan 12, 2010 9:15 AM CST be patient or cut and run
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Sparky6420: Like I said there were circumstances that had nothing to do with the two of us and how I feel about this person. Honestly, I have found that when I leap into situations without counting costs, someone usually ends up being hurt. Moving too fast can destroy a good thing. Of course, moving too slow can also destroy a relationship. So communicating wants and needs is important.



I understand your situation.

But

In OP post it said that they live 20 miles appart 20!

If that woman or a man were honestly interested to continue relationships, they must to meet. Just to take a look how a spark is going to work.

30 minutes for a coffe! ... Come on! It is not a lot to waste.

I find OP's situation very suspicious.

conversing
Jan 12, 2010 9:23 AM CST be patient or cut and run
Sparky6420
Sparky6420Sparky6420North Vernon, Indiana USA12 Threads 3 Polls 217 Posts
Konigsberg: I understand your situation.

But

In OP post it said that they live 20 miles appart 20!

If that woman or a man were honestly interested to continue relationships, they must to meet. Just to take a look how a spark is going to work.

30 minutes for a coffe! ... Come on! It is not a lot to waste.

I find OP's situation very suspicious.

I see your point and wouldn't hesitate if it were only 20 miles apart. Of course, I have met people before in RL.

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