If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly? (59)

Feb 4, 2010 7:45 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Keeneland
KeenelandKeenelandDublin, Ireland19 Threads 3 Polls 1,993 Posts
Sevenotwo: Just didn't like all the anger passion going on, it's not a blooming opera, you know.

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Well unfortunately anger happens in this world. If you don't like it it's best not to read it i reckon. dunno laugh
Feb 4, 2010 7:55 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
Keeneland: Well unfortunately anger happens in this world. If you don't like it it's best not to read it i reckon.


Yeah, but should it be brought into our leisure too...
You could run a thread on that question, no! somebody would get wound up and not see the irony....
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Feb 4, 2010 7:55 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
FullIrish: And who would I be trying to endear myself to??


you just quite haven't got the gist of this site, have you?
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Feb 4, 2010 7:56 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
Keeneland: I never said they would be happy about it. I said that why is getting one more important than the other? If a relationships comes along before a job then great, or if a job comes along before a realationship then great also. Why do you need to concentrate on one or the other?


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Feb 4, 2010 8:01 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
FullIrish
FullIrishFullIrishDundalk, Louth Ireland20 Threads 4 Polls 569 Posts
Sevenotwo: you just quite haven't got the gist of this site, have you?

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I know exactly what this site is all about thank you very muchhandshake
I dont need a washed up ole fella to tell mewink
you said it wasnt very endearing and im saying to whom was I trying to endear myself to?? you??
You didnt like it so I must have spoiled your day then awwwh thats a pitycomfort
Feb 4, 2010 8:05 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
FullIrish: I know exactly what this site is all about thank you very much
I dont need a washed up ole fella to tell me
you said it wasnt very endearing and im saying to whom was I trying to endear myself to?? you??
You didnt like it so I must have spoiled your day then awwwh thats a pity


You are a long way from upsetting either me or my day even with your personal insults. maybe you could think of using your energy in a more constructive fashion.
Have a nice day
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Feb 4, 2010 8:06 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
FullIrish
FullIrishFullIrishDundalk, Louth Ireland20 Threads 4 Polls 569 Posts
Sevenotwo: You are a long way from upsetting either me or my day even with your personal insults. maybe you could think of using your energy in a more constructive fashion.
Have a nice day
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Have a nice daycomfort
Feb 4, 2010 8:07 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
FullIrish: I know exactly what this site is all about thank you very much
I dont need a washed up ole fella to tell me
you said it wasnt very endearing and im saying to whom was I trying to endear myself to?? you??
You didnt like it so I must have spoiled your day then awwwh thats a pity


Washed up ole fella rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing you should see the women this guy attracts wow wow wow wow you young guys could learn a thing or 2 wink
Feb 4, 2010 8:08 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
FullIrish
FullIrishFullIrishDundalk, Louth Ireland20 Threads 4 Polls 569 Posts
ladylumps: Washed up ole fella you should see the women this guy attracts you young guys could learn a thing or 2


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Feb 4, 2010 8:08 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Girlychick
GirlychickGirlychickDublin, Ireland2 Threads 142 Posts
afternoon all hows the form this thursday afternoon?!wow
Feb 4, 2010 8:11 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
ladylumps: Washed up ole fella you should see the women this guy attracts you young guys could learn a thing or 2

Thanks LL, or should I say shhhh!
Smiling anyway

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bouquet
Feb 10, 2010 2:48 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
fishitfun
fishitfunfishitfunMiddle East, Al Asimah Kuwait31 Threads 646 Posts
Job first make good money then get settled for a better future.
Feb 12, 2010 6:08 PM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Jackson1862
Jackson1862Jackson1862Biloxi, Mississippi USA12 Threads 283 Posts
If you hold out on dating until you get employment here in the U.S you will be waiting for a long time seeing as unemployment here has reached 10.1%. Don't believe anything you all hear about this country Oblow has not created jobs as we speak thousands of jobs are being eliminated.

Man i wish i was over there now. How is the employment situation there?
Feb 12, 2010 6:13 PM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Jackson1862: If you hold out on dating until you get employment here in the U.S you will be waiting for a long time seeing as unemployment here has reached 10.1%. Don't believe anything you all hear about this country Oblow has not created jobs as we speak thousands of jobs are being eliminated.

Man i wish i was over there now. How is the employment situation there?


12.7% and getting worse every day.
Feb 12, 2010 10:10 PM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Jackson1862
Jackson1862Jackson1862Biloxi, Mississippi USA12 Threads 283 Posts
Wex how bad do you think the global economic and job market situation will get? i don't know about you but i do believe we are heading for the end times.
Feb 13, 2010 6:56 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
moonvilla
moonvillamoonvillamonaghan, Monaghan Ireland26 Threads 909 Posts
this is a very good thread with the recession and all i think it has changed most peoples views on dating....cause we are all watchin are pennys we cant exactly afford to be goin on fancy dinners for first dates...or if u have to drive somewhere u might havwe to stay over....just my opinion.conversing
Feb 13, 2010 6:58 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
moonvilla
moonvillamoonvillamonaghan, Monaghan Ireland26 Threads 909 Posts
and the answer i would give is a job,unless ur meetin somebody who understands or is in a similar situation as urself.dunno
Feb 13, 2010 7:00 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
FullIrish
FullIrishFullIrishDundalk, Louth Ireland20 Threads 4 Polls 569 Posts
moonvilla: this is a very good thread with the recession and all i think it has changed most peoples views on dating....cause we are all watchin are pennys we cant exactly afford to be goin on fancy dinners for first dates...or if u have to drive somewhere u might havwe to stay over....just my opinion.


Am glad u think it was a good thread, Plenty didnt if you read from the startlaugh
Feb 13, 2010 7:04 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
moonvilla
moonvillamoonvillamonaghan, Monaghan Ireland26 Threads 909 Posts
FullIrish: Am glad u think it was a good thread, Plenty didnt if you read from the start
i read through it roughly everyone is entitled to their own opinons....i like the thread because ur been realistic in the times we live in.hope it works out for u.thumbs up
Feb 13, 2010 7:18 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Jackson1862: Wex how bad do you think the global economic and job market situation will get? i don't know about you but i do believe we are heading for the end times.


Don't know about the rest of the world but here in Ireland I think things will get a lot worse before they get better.

Our government is doing everything it can to increase the cost of living... they have increased taxes on fuel, parking and waste charges which means everything goes up in price.

They have cut wages and welfare payments...with more cuts to come I would think. They are allowing (or even forcing) employers to cut minimum wage. They have brought in further income taxes and levies.

They are cutting the amount of special needs assistants and language assistants in schools. So children who once would have had a chance of a decent education are now unlikely to reach their potential.

Basically they are taking away the little spending power people have which means more jobs are set to be lost.

They have cut education grants so preventing some people from getting third level qualifications... I believe this will lead to multinational companies pulling out of Ireland as there will not be a skilled/educated workforce and so reduce the number of jobs available.

They are taking contracts away from Irish companies and giving them to the UK... so causing further unemployment here.

Worst of all they have divided the country. Any one who has a job..and want to fight to protect their own and everyone elses is called names and told they are being selfish. The very people who should be joining together to protect each other are fighting against eac other.. because of the lies our government are telling the people of Ireland.

Sorry that was some rant!! But you did ask, Jackson.




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Feb 13, 2010 9:37 PM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Jackson1862
Jackson1862Jackson1862Biloxi, Mississippi USA12 Threads 283 Posts
wexlady41: Don't know about the rest of the world but here in Ireland I think things will get a lot worse before they get better.

Our government is doing everything it can to increase the cost of living... they have increased taxes on fuel, parking and waste charges which means everything goes up in price.

They have cut wages and welfare payments...with more cuts to come I would think. They are allowing (or even forcing) employers to cut minimum wage. They have brought in further income taxes and levies.

They are cutting the amount of special needs assistants and language assistants in schools. So children who once would have had a chance of a decent education are now unlikely to reach their potential.

Basically they are taking away the little spending power people have which means more jobs are set to be lost.

They have cut education grants so preventing some people from getting third level qualifications... I believe this will lead to multinational companies pulling out of Ireland as there will not be a skilled/educated workforce and so reduce the number of jobs available.

They are taking contracts away from Irish companies and giving them to the UK... so causing further unemployment here.

Worst of all they have divided the country. Any one who has a job..and want to fight to protect their own and everyone elses is called names and told they are being selfish. The very people who should be joining together to protect each other are fighting against eac other.. because of the lies our government are telling the people of Ireland.

Sorry that was some rant!! But you did ask, Jackson.
My it sounds similiar to what is going on here. The Obama administration promised tax cuts but what we are finding out now is that he is trying to enact more taxes on many things. He has not reduced welfare benefits though at least not for non-whites and the people who need help are more likely not to get it. Outsourcing seems to be a big problem here i myself detest it as it harms people who live here and benefits mainly the Chinese, Pakis and Indians.
I know that many workplaces here have cut hours drastically and i have known several people who lost their jobs in the Travel and Tourism industry after 8 or so years of employment. I myself went back to college about 3 years ago and finally graduated in May 09 with a second degree in Travel and Tourism Management but since then the industry has crashed and i even thought about moving overseas to salvage it.
Feb 14, 2010 4:10 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Whatever i can get first laugh One follows other...if you solve one problem you will easily solve others---or not dunno
Feb 14, 2010 4:23 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Bill1709
Bill1709Bill1709Dublin/ kildare, Dublin Ireland10 Threads 74 Posts
A lot of people become more themself when they are unemployed/struggling financially. Gives them the time to think about the most nb things in life. (as a student ive known this too long!) For this reason i reckon love will develop more between ppl in a recessionary time rather than a boom time, when materialism is a factor. Saying that I believe starting a relationship wen ur broke is tough.
markizamkd25: Whatever i can get first One follows other...if you solve one problem you will easily solve others---or not
Feb 14, 2010 4:23 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Bill1709
Bill1709Bill1709Dublin/ kildare, Dublin Ireland10 Threads 74 Posts
A lot of people become more themself when they are unemployed/struggling financially. Gives them the time to think about the most nb things in life. (as a student ive known this too long!) For this reason i reckon love will develop more between ppl in a recessionary time rather than a boom time, when materialism is a factor. Saying that I believe starting a relationship wen ur broke is tough.
markizamkd25: Whatever i can get first One follows other...if you solve one problem you will easily solve others---or not
Feb 18, 2010 10:01 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
FullIrish: What would you focus on firstly if you were single and unemployed??
Getting a job and if a relationship comes well and good, or focus on finding a partner then everything else will fall into place


I would focus on finding a job first, that would be my prioritywave
Feb 19, 2010 5:43 PM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
Jackson1862
Jackson1862Jackson1862Biloxi, Mississippi USA12 Threads 283 Posts
I would find a woman that would understand the situation for what it is and that is that overall the job market is harsh to a lot of us right now.
Feb 25, 2010 6:27 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
somethingnice
somethingnicesomethingniceDublin, Ireland2 Threads 36 Posts
Personally, id go for a partner all the way, hence why alot of us are here in this boat on cs, jobs come and go, had a few and lost a few in my time. Having a partner is better then any job out there, and I have had more happyness from that experience then what money can buy, with a partner the possibilities are endless..
Feb 25, 2010 7:14 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
crystal100
crystal100crystal100wexford, Wexford Ireland2 Threads 251 Posts
but i do believe we are heading for the end times.




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Feb 25, 2010 7:16 AM CST If you were single and unemployed, which would you focus on firstly?
crystal100
crystal100crystal100wexford, Wexford Ireland2 Threads 251 Posts
What difference does it make to dating if a person has a job or not , meet for coffee ( don't cost much) bag o chips ( ot that expensive. go for walk (free)
Don't know what the big deal is. if a person likes someone it shouldn't be cos they have money ! banana banana

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