Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion (103)

Apr 7, 2010 6:57 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
lonely_bear
lonely_bearlonely_bearBrest, Brittany, Galway Ireland1 Posts
I think the main reason for divorce is marriage rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 7, 2010 7:08 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Each of the two love themselves and are seeking all things to their best interest without love of the other for the other.

The only sacrifices one will make is to preserve what they desire to retain. Self Love is the cause of divorce. If each loved correctly.......there is no divorce.
Apr 7, 2010 7:13 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
To much hassel................. bouquet
Apr 7, 2010 7:22 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
A man and his wife were splitting up. It was his fault by being so selfish. I asked him if he loved himself or did he love her. The very thing that she was hurt by. He said He loved her. I told him that we would find out. I told him she wants with all her heart to be left alone for a while and if her did that for HER she would know he had changed by understand the things I opened his eyes to about himself. But he could not stop bothering her trying to whoo her back. They divorced and it was final for all time. He loved himself and had to have her back, he did not love her enough to give her some time without bothering her. Her could have saved their marriage.....if he had loved her and had made her life better for her.

He learned a lot.......but way too late. He is a different person now.....he now knows!


People think they know love......and are mostly dumb as a post about it.
Apr 7, 2010 7:28 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: A man and his wife were splitting up. It was his fault by being so selfish. I asked him if he loved himself or did he love her. The very thing that she was hurt by. He said He loved her. I told him that we would find out. I told him she wants with all her heart to be left alone for a while and if her did that for HER she would know he had changed by understand the things I opened his eyes to about himself. But he could not stop bothering her trying to whoo her back. They divorced and it was final for all time. He loved himself and had to have her back, he did not love her enough to give her some time without bothering her. Her could have saved their marriage.....if he had loved her and had made her life better for her.

He learned a lot.......but way too late. He is a different person now.....he now knows!People think they know love......and are mostly dumb as a post about it.



Sounds like someone I know.................uh oh uh oh bouquet
Apr 7, 2010 7:29 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
PollyWolly: Sounds like someone I know.................



bouquet
Apr 7, 2010 7:33 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
All should read "The Gift of the Magi." by O'Henry.

it is online and short! Those people have love and a forever marriage. professor
Apr 7, 2010 7:36 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: All should read "The Gift of the Magi." by O'Henry.

it is online and short! Those people have love and a forever marriage.


Oh!!! I have a forever marriage.................its the Love bit thats missing...doh doh bouquet
Apr 7, 2010 7:40 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
PollyWolly: Oh!!! I have a forever marriage.................its the Love bit thats missing...
comfort bouquet
Apr 7, 2010 7:41 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
I was married for nearly 39 yrs and never ever strayed. I think the stresses of today are so different than what they were when I got married.It took a tragedy to split us up very sad,he could not deal with it, but life goes on and having to start a new life was very hard I am so glad that I remained strong.

It sure was fun looking again, so easy on dating sites, I think my search may be over.One step at a time though as early days.
But being free was an experience in itself.... glad I got on some dating sites, certainly learnt so much about the male could write a book...... um well maybe a few pages.
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Apr 7, 2010 7:45 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Men can't write a book about women......because they change every ten minutes. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



I go now before I get smacked! grin
Apr 7, 2010 7:49 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
PollyWolly
PollyWollyPollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands27 Threads 3,889 Posts
RillyNiceGuy: Men can't write a book about women......because they change every ten minutes.
I go now before I get smacked!



Nah! u wont......banana banana Its true...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 28, 2010 7:14 AM CST Why are there so many Divorces these days, I would like your honest opinion
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Lack of respect
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