Each of the two love themselves and are seeking all things to their best interest without love of the other for the other.
The only sacrifices one will make is to preserve what they desire to retain. Self Love is the cause of divorce. If each loved correctly.......there is no divorce.
A man and his wife were splitting up. It was his fault by being so selfish. I asked him if he loved himself or did he love her. The very thing that she was hurt by. He said He loved her. I told him that we would find out. I told him she wants with all her heart to be left alone for a while and if her did that for HER she would know he had changed by understand the things I opened his eyes to about himself. But he could not stop bothering her trying to whoo her back. They divorced and it was final for all time. He loved himself and had to have her back, he did not love her enough to give her some time without bothering her. Her could have saved their marriage.....if he had loved her and had made her life better for her.
He learned a lot.......but way too late. He is a different person now.....he now knows!
People think they know love......and are mostly dumb as a post about it.
PollyWollyJust North of Amsterdam.., North Holland Netherlands3,889 posts
RillyNiceGuy: A man and his wife were splitting up. It was his fault by being so selfish. I asked him if he loved himself or did he love her. The very thing that she was hurt by. He said He loved her. I told him that we would find out. I told him she wants with all her heart to be left alone for a while and if her did that for HER she would know he had changed by understand the things I opened his eyes to about himself. But he could not stop bothering her trying to whoo her back. They divorced and it was final for all time. He loved himself and had to have her back, he did not love her enough to give her some time without bothering her. Her could have saved their marriage.....if he had loved her and had made her life better for her.
He learned a lot.......but way too late. He is a different person now.....he now knows!People think they know love......and are mostly dumb as a post about it.
I was married for nearly 39 yrs and never ever strayed. I think the stresses of today are so different than what they were when I got married.It took a tragedy to split us up very sad,he could not deal with it, but life goes on and having to start a new life was very hard I am so glad that I remained strong.
It sure was fun looking again, so easy on dating sites, I think my search may be over.One step at a time though as early days. But being free was an experience in itself.... glad I got on some dating sites, certainly learnt so much about the male could write a book...... um well maybe a few pages.
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