With 'private contact' I mean a person to or from whom you sent or received at least one mail, flower, IM or ecard. 'starting' means sending the first of all of these.
Most of mine started because someone voted on a picture. For the first maybe 36 hours I was on here, I tried to send a flower to everyone who voted, just to say thanks because people were being so nice!hahaha I'm such a dork:/ (Did you know they limit how many flowers you can send in a 24 hour period?? They do.)
Guadalcanal: With 'private contact' I mean a person to or from whom you sent or received at least one mail, flower, IM or ecard. 'starting' means sending the first of all of these.
opentuit: Most of mine started because someone voted on a picture. For the first maybe 36 hours I was on here, I tried to send a flower to everyone who voted, just to say thanks because people were being so nice!hahaha I'm such a dork:/ (Did you know they limit how many flowers you can send in a 24 hour period?? They do.)
.....to a particular person,but you are free to send any amount of Flowers,as long they all go to different persons.
I guess the majority of the initial contacts were from guys, although I also did send a fair few out myself if I saw an interesting person or just wanted to say hi.
Sometimes, it was just because I wanted to get to know them as a friend, whether male or female. This is a Connecting site, after all!
I never was contacted first, and most of my "flowers", or emails also were not even answered , but some were and out of it, I got some nice "friendships" as far as internet goes
opentuit: not true. i got a little error message pop-up thingy that said i'd reached the limit of flowers that i could send in a 24 hour period. no joke.
Yep, drives me nuts that, when I want to shower on person in particular in flowers
Many of the once I receive are comments about a post or poem, which I REALLY appreciate. Some are people who are genuinely 'interested', which I actually find both sweet and kinda humbling - It certainly doesn't happen in the REAL world.
Many of the onceones I receive are comments about a post or poem, which I REALLY appreciate. Some are people who are genuinely 'interested', which I actually find both sweet and kinda humbling - It certainly doesn't happen in the REAL world.
iv,e only had personal contact with two people, one found romance,which i was very happy about,i get an update every now and then, and i dare not guess what the other person is doing, but i like mayo and mustard on my spam sandwich. i would more than likely have more contact if i had a photo, im sure, but i have my reason for no photo, is very small. lots of people don,t make contact with a person if they don,t have a photo, and i don,t blame them. so just think of me as a denzel washington lookalike, but a hell of lot better looking..
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On Connecting Singles, who started most of your private contacts?(Vote Below)