mjames: Well it has nothing to do with positive thoughts. It has to do with good choices.
I know so many women that choose cheaters, liars, users, but it takes a train wreck before they see the truth about the guy.
If a woman is into a guy, that guy knows it and he can do pretty much anything and the woman will still stay.
Choose a good guy; look at his actions instead of his word; and things will be fine.
Another great picture of you, mjames!
We don't attract what we think we want because so much of what motivates us is not on the conscious level of our minds. We are motivated by compulsions more than free will. Like mjames said, we make the same mistakes over and over until we can think the thought that enables us to choose differently.
mychelle: Do you find that you are just as likely to have a negative outcome even if you think positive about an individual you are attracted to?
Someone may think they are feeling and fooling themselves into thinking they are being positive, and looking for the positives in someone else.
But, alot of the time they are still feeling negative about themselves. We fool ourselves into thinking that we are feeling positive, although we are really not.
As much as no-one else can make us feel unhappy, the same applies to whether we think negative or positive.
Eloquent speech, intelligent posts, thoughts or actions will not erase the fact that the negativity is still there.
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