We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome? ( Archived) (9)

May 26, 2010 8:18 PM CSTWe have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
mychelle
mychellemychelleOttawa, Ontario, Canada114 Threads 9 Polls 1,685 Posts

We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?(Vote Below)

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Attractions are energy with pos/negative outcome
7
23%
Forced attractions bring undesired results
2
7%
Misconceptions bring negative results
1
3%
Preconceived notions brings undesired results
1
3%
Projecting your wants brings unpleasant outcome
2
7%
Destiny play a part in whatever outcome
8
27%
We need to be prepared for any outcome
5
17%
We need to be honest about our desires
1
3%
We need to be accepting of our part in outcome
1
3%
Unpleasant outcome make us more resilient people
2
7%
Total Votes
30
Do you find that you are just as likely to have a negative outcome even if you think positive about an individual you are attracted to?
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May 28, 2010 6:25 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
mychelle: Do you find that you are just as likely to have a negative outcome even if you think positive about an individual you are attracted to?


Well it has nothing to do with positive thoughts. It has to do with good choices.

I know so many women that choose cheaters, liars, users, but it takes a train wreck before they see the truth about the guy.

If a woman is into a guy, that guy knows it and he can do pretty much anything and the woman will still stay.

Choose a good guy; look at his actions instead of his word; and things will be fine.
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May 28, 2010 6:28 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
AngelicVixen
AngelicVixenAngelicVixenLos Angeles, California USA88 Posts
Unpleasant outcomes are always the result of doubt or fear, considering all other given elements are genuine.
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May 28, 2010 6:34 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
AngelicVixen
AngelicVixenAngelicVixenLos Angeles, California USA88 Posts
Well it has nothing to do with positive thoughts. It has to do with good choices.

I know so many women that choose cheaters, liars, users, but it takes a train wreck before they see the truth about the guy.

If a woman is into a guy, that guy knows it and he can do pretty much anything and the woman will still stay.

Choose a good guy; look at his actions instead of his word; and things will be fine.[/quote



cheers
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May 28, 2010 6:37 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
tulip07
tulip07tulip07Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey1 Threads 410 Posts
AngelicVixen: Well it has nothing to do with positive thoughts. It has to do with good choices.

I know so many women that choose cheaters, liars, users, but it takes a train wreck before they see the truth about the guy.

If a woman is into a guy, that guy knows it and he can do pretty much anything and the woman will still stay.

Choose a good guy; look at his actions instead of his word; and things will be fine.[/quote



most of the womans tends to look at other thing too....

they dont want bad surprise i guess beer
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May 28, 2010 6:41 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
Venusruled
VenusruledVenusruledGolden, Colorado USA816 Posts
mjames: Well it has nothing to do with positive thoughts. It has to do with good choices.

I know so many women that choose cheaters, liars, users, but it takes a train wreck before they see the truth about the guy.

If a woman is into a guy, that guy knows it and he can do pretty much anything and the woman will still stay.

Choose a good guy; look at his actions instead of his word; and things will be fine.


Another great picture of you, mjames!

We don't attract what we think we want because so much of what motivates us is not on the conscious level of our minds. We are motivated by compulsions more than free will. Like mjames said, we make the same mistakes over and over until we can think the thought that enables us to choose differently.
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May 28, 2010 6:44 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
I think that nice people here often attract the dregs. We probably seem to be the easiest to lie to. dunno
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May 28, 2010 9:08 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
DodgeBabe
DodgeBabeDodgeBabepotsdam, New York USA31 Threads 2,299 Posts
mychelle: Do you find that you are just as likely to have a negative outcome even if you think positive about an individual you are attracted to?


Someone may think they are feeling and fooling themselves into thinking they are being positive, and looking for the positives in someone else.

But, alot of the time they are still feeling negative about themselves. We fool ourselves into thinking that we are feeling positive, although we are really not.

As much as no-one else can make us feel unhappy, the same applies to whether we think negative or positive.

Eloquent speech, intelligent posts, thoughts or actions will not erase the fact that the negativity is still there.
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May 28, 2010 9:46 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
mjames: Well it has nothing to do with positive thoughts. It has to do with good choices.

I know so many women that choose cheaters, liars, users, but it takes a train wreck before they see the truth about the guy.

If a woman is into a guy, that guy knows it and he can do pretty much anything and the woman will still stay.

Choose a good guy; look at his actions instead of his word; and things will be fine.

ok , so are u the one for me? then?teddybear
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May 28, 2010 9:48 PM CST We have free will to attract, so why do we attract unpleasant outcome?
Validity
ValidityValidityLindsay, Ontario Canada47 Threads 1 Polls 803 Posts
ok so if bad boys are not good show me a good bad boy/? is there one?yay
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