The guy says he will call you back (131)

Ok, Prince, don't get all bitey with me then.

Here is your first post to me, a bit over the edge would you not say:

"doberman--are we to assume that you hear this a lot after your first dates and they DON'T call you back?
I believe that's known as a one-night-stand."

Oh, you think I should change my name and attitude,
well, don't mess with me with a post the above and I would treat you fine. It goes two ways.

Keep it up with the female dog thing just shows how crude you are.

Sorry, taking my bite back, I'm sure you will be treated the way you deserve by women. I'm not impressed.

I think you have a pretty bad attitude also, so at least we agree on something.

The Doberman Luvs that name and will never stop, Haaaaaaaaaa

As a rule, I never disrespect ladies. But thanks for your input Amity. I'm only responding to your net friend. It's ok!

Thanks Amity. Prince sure likes to zap people out of no where.

The Dobe

net friend?
Please refrain from petty remarks..although that did make me lol a lil

Just stating the obvious really..if you dislike the lady who started this thread which from your posts i can assume correct then why not avoid a confrontation?
Ohhh wait...thats what adults do

Well you sure did disrespect me with your first post for no reason.

Duh, Prince, she was refering to me. I do not think you get it.
By the way, this is the last of it with you and me.
There is no point trying to post to you.

The Doberman

The number on the banana. I may be forward, but that's a bit beyond me.
I do make the call if the number is given to me.
Though I really have wondered if that is too assertive.
I find alot of men nowadays say they like assertive, then turn round and complain that women are too pushy.
It makes for a confusing situation. What is assertive what is pushy?
I am not one to call up a guy and get right into planning the date down to dress code.

I like this thread, for the basic info it intails.
It is both amusing and helpful.
TY Dobe!

Maybe you and Snoop Doggy Dog should hook up then.



Personally, I have never encountered a woman who wants to be called the name of a breed of dog. Generally speaking, they do not like such associations and would consider such, offensive.

But, the world is wide. As for impressing you or not, well..I'll have to live with that. And if you don't want responses to your thread, don't post it.

She is your net friend isn't she? One of your CS gf's you bond with?

What was petty about stating a fact? You responded to my post, I wasn't addressing you, was I? Maybe you just wanted to involve yourself. Been long on CS Amity?

Euoprince's comments were totally uncalled for.

As for the OP's question? If I have met someone and was interested in meeting her again then I think that it is important for both to be consistent with each other.I am not into playing games and if I detect that they are playing games then I am gone.However,it is not wise to jump to assumptions either because there can be any number of very valid reasons why they did not make that call when they said they would.However total silence speaks volumes.

But I sign my name as such as I rescue them. I just adore them.


Bingo, now I know

Hi Dobe

some of us doont call because you intimidated us and we think...Oh she was just being nice

Oh, well said! But I merely offered comment Sport.

Somehow I expect you'd be at "her" door the next morning, flowers in hand and a whimpering apology for not being there sooner.

You got me all wrong.
I would be quietly picking up her door key without waking her,sneaking to the shops and gathering food for breakfast alongside flowers and chocolates and the morning paper.
Then I would present her with a fully cooked breakfast,on a tray in bed ready to build up her energy levels for what is to come.

If I do on the off chance give out my number and he doesn't call, I figure he's probably doing me a favor by NOT calling me! LOL

Thanks,Raven for the post, don't ever think I'd give my number on a banana, ha. I was being silly, well, maybe on an apple? Not on a apple either.

I was given my guys number in a email to call him if I felt like it since he did not have mine. It felt strange being the one to call him. But I took the risk and am glad. Before our call was over, he told me when he would call again, and he did so. After that call, the same thing.
I like a guy who does what he says.

From being married, I have found out that guys do not do anything the do not want to do. So if they are not interested, they will not call.

I guess you have to use your gut feelings when a guy gives you his number.
Who knows, maybe he's afraid to ask you what your number is and gives you his. Then he knows if you call him, he is interested.

If I was at a bar with friends and a guy gave me his number to call, I'd say the odds of him being serious is 50/50. They can be drunk at that point.

I agree, guys say they want us to make the move, then go back to thinking we are pushy.

Maybe some serious CS guys would give us their comments.

Even though, things have changed, some things stay the same way just like with dating. I do not know when men and women will ever understand each other completely, ha.

The Dobe

I, for one, always call if I say I will.

Meri, glad you liked my answer. Plus, Doberman3 stands for the 3 Dobes that I have adopted after they were rescued by my group, Jake (red color), Sir Duke (black & tan) and Wile the Coyote (blue).

Thanks, Meri

The Dobe

Not long ago, i was out and a guy tried to chat me up. I let him know I was not interested but he insisted in giving me his number. I said " you can give me your number but I will not call you so you better not wait around for it"

He said I was cold and then wrote his number down and gave it to me

It is good that you help out with the dogs. They are such helpless creatures and so dependant on humans. And taking care of an animal is so rewarding.

That would be lovely.

The Dobe