Do you get replies from emails or flowerbox when you compliment someone on CS ( Archived) (31)

People could just say a thank you for their compliment if they so wish......but it's not that necessary....


If you got some of the mails I got you would be saying more than a thank you I can tell you.....

Well hope you find that warm country.....

i think that even the northern pole can be warm if you find someone to light the fire.

Your Looks and Your Inbox

Thanks for sharing! Since I changed my written profile I'm getting even more mails and flowers..



Thanks a million scottiesingle for trying to help me out with that coffee or a beach sunset!

O come: on looks is not just important for relationship....the person can be pretty and dumb ......we talking about being polite here

I looked in my filterbox recently. Three pages of mail and 4 of flowers. Thats more than in the unfiltered stuff.

You welcomeI wish u luck

I always get a response to sent flowers even if just thankyou,

You don't have a "relationship" when you're just sending a compliment to someone you don't know. It's only first contact, and for that reason the link that kylepurity2 posted is relevant and very informative.
Those guys who run the OKC site are Harvard graduates and they do some serious data mining of their entire user base before writing those blog entries.

Marc why has to be a relationship...its about being polite...I'm sure when u out there u give woman compliment or jus saying Hi ...wouldn't u luv to hear response...it doesn't mean u want to have a relationship..it means sometimes being friendly or polite....what that type of people doesn't exist anymore (being friendly or polite)

You were the one who mentioned the word "relationship" in your response to kylepurity2, I was just responding to that.

As I said in my first post, I don't necessarily expect a reply when I send a compliment. I simply enjoy sending it. For example yesterday, I sent flowers to a woman who is taller than myself, and for that reason I know that we will not be seeing each other as potential partners. I didn't get a response from her, but it wasn't necessary. I just felt like sending the flowers and it was nice to do so.

Unortunately some people do not think that you have to be polite or nice since this not "the real world"....I try to repsond to all who write or send a flower..the only ones I definitely do not reply to are the nasty / rude ones...

Iff i sent you a flower ,,would you send me a nice message back

If it's not from a scammer I prefer mail, as there is more room for content than on a flower message box, thus opening the door for further conversation.

Unless you have something else in your mind asides compliment,i don't see why you should pay too much attention on getting a reply.
The compliment should bring as much joy to you as getting a reply.
Though it may be a little bit dissappointing,it shouldn't stop you from appreciating what pleases you.

it's not all women u would be interesting on this site...i'm talk bout being polite... and some people getting wrong ...

Being honest, I'm far away from United States and Europe... I think that is not correct, in fact "useless" to send a compliment using "Flowers",because is like an invitation for to waste time...people talk about friendship, but you know that Friendship here means "relationship"... a pity, but realistic. I'd rather to make a nice Comment in a picture, to gift 9 or ten points of "Sympathy".... If someone send me a compliment by Flowerbox or Emailbox my reply will be similar, but at least in my case always responds any compliment,or comment, keeping my distance with respect. Try to avoid to make opinions at the forum, because is mainly an "American Forum", talking about "American Issues", and being honest I made a mistake time ago, because is not my language, unfortunately I mistook a reply (someone send me a lyric of a song in his reply and I mistook "The sense")....later I asked a public apology, but people was really cruel, and when I posted anything else, never received answer again. Was very pathetic my position there, I was considered as a kind of ignorant, and my Forum Posts a dangerous place. That experience made me to understand "why the Twins Towers and 9/11 still are so traumatic in that society ... now I'm here but absolutely TACTFUL. No way.