leostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa1,685 posts
Surely it depends on the individual? I mean, most young girls still want to have fun and enjoy themselves. Then there are others who are more mature and would prefer to settle down. Age usually offers more maturity, but not always. Sometimes you get old immature men and other times young mature men. If you are finding MOST young men silly and self involved, then perhaps dating someone older might work better for you. On the other hand, you may find the older guys aren't as flexible (their personality!!!!) and don't have the energy and enthusiasm of younger fellas. It all depends what traits YOU value.
I would definetly say: YES! Hey! My youngest kid is an 8 year old girl & I rollerskate, fly kites & play Hanna Montana songs on the guitar for her. We all age biologically, but if you can rermain young at heart & in the mind, age becames just a 3 letter word then. And as always it's a nice re-learning curve again! Ps: I can outrun & outswim my eldest son - can't outfight him howevern He's a judo gold medialist, my fault! I taught him!
its easy..just find a young one who isnt bad..from my experience if a guy is bad when hes young, most likely when he gets older he will be the same way..age doesnt necessarily make a person grow up or act more mature. Its from what I've seen anyways. my son acts more mature than some men ive met.
Age in my opinion is not as important as long as both parties clearly understand the positive and negative aspects of being in a long term relationship which one of the parties may become less beautiful and incapacitated. Which then makes one of the parties essentially run an adult day care center and have other thoughts about the relationship then. What is the motive for getting into an age difference relationship for both parties besides LOVE? Then both parties needs to see a counselor who specializes in this subject before it is sealed as a deal.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
jaguardancer: Age in my opinion is not as important as long as both parties clearly understand the positive and negative aspects of being in a long term relationship which one of the parties may become less beautiful and incapacitated. Which then makes one of the parties essentially run an adult day care center and have other thoughts about the relationship then. What is the motive for getting into an age difference relationship for both parties besides LOVE? Then both parties needs to see a counselor who specializes in this subject before it is sealed as a deal.
I think two adults should be able to make up their own minds, without resorting to a witch doctor, coucellors are human to and subject to predjudice the same as anyone else
It all depends on the guy you meet..I've met older ones who were more screwed up than some younger ones, and some younger who were messed up too..My opinion is a person cant assume just because of someones age, they will be compatable. If you feel more physically attracted to older men then seek one that is also matured emotionally for the age he is..If you feel more attracted to a guy your own age then seek one who has matured to the level you want..They can be found..lol..good luck in your search.
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