scoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA1,100 posts
In my experience what women say they want and what they go after are two different things. the lady who says hopless romantic when one takes an interest just wants to be friends while they chase after the bad boy. When a lady says she wants a man who will be kind and help around the house, and that kind of guy steps up and says here I am,,, she just wants to be friends and chases after the guy who drinks and partys and sits around the house doing nothing. I know very few ladies who can state what they want and then go after a guy with those very qualities, they usualy go for the guy who is the opposite of what they say they want and wounder why they wont change for them.
scoutmaster: In my experience what women say they want and what they go after are two different things. the lady who says hopless romantic when one takes an interest just wants to be friends while they chase after the bad boy. When a lady says she wants a man who will be kind and help around the house, and that kind of guy steps up and says here I am,,, she just wants to be friends and chases after the guy who drinks and partys and sits around the house doing nothing. I know very few ladies who can state what they want and then go after a guy with those very qualities, they usualy go for the guy who is the opposite of what they say they want and wounder why they wont change for them.
I read your post's and think wow,that woman sure did a number on you,you think so negative about woman now.You should not blame all woman for a few bad apples,nor should woman blame all men because of a few bad apples! Age and wisdom has helped men and woman realize what they really want in a person.We know what not to look for now.We know the signs and move on now.When we were young we had no fear,didn't know any better,but with age and experience comes knowledge. Everyone should make peace with there past,not blame their future partner for some thing someone else done to them.Start with a fresh and positive mind towards dating and relating.
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
kuroda: I basically set this up to see what you ladies out there go for me myself I fall into quite a few of the catagories
i wouldnt go for a type or a kind of men..just one,who makes me smile(or slightly blush),when i think about him..one,with who i can feel myself and relaxed around..one,who does,what he says and says,what he means..cliche..but,it works for me..
cherrybrandy: i wouldnt go for a type or a kind of men..just one,who makes me smile(or slightly blush),when i think about him..one,with who i can feel myself and relaxed around..one,who does,what he says and says,what he means..cliche..but,it works for me..
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