Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for??? (48)

Nov 29, 2010 10:35 AM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
faded_dino: I've done the long distance thing and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.....You just have to know what your looking for and willing to make sacrifices to get there, but going to another country.....you should always have a fall back, so you don't get stuck.

I do date people from other countries, why do you think I'm in Finland, and going back to Cyprus xmas.grin grin angel devil
Nov 29, 2010 10:40 AM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
Serpenta_Manon: Nurse, some hot chocolate for those two please!
and chocolate cake toorolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Nov 29, 2010 10:42 AM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
robsantiago15
robsantiago15robsantiago15Lowell, Massachusetts USA11 Threads 713 Posts
I would only date locally. I'm a firm believer that a relationship must be carried face to face not on the internet. Don't get me wrong, online dating is good to initially meet the person, but then you must meet in person in order to get to know each other.

Also, since my vacation time is very limited is hard to fly to another continent to see somebody. Then, you also have to take in consideration the cost of immigration, which is very expensive and I'm not talking about the plain ticket I'm talking about the legal aspect and paperwork.
Nov 29, 2010 10:46 AM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
ninamil
ninamilninamilGoiania, Goias Brazil31 Threads 1 Polls 696 Posts
i Would date someone who lives in another country as I already dated and had a long term before, but not from CS or another sites ... here only for forums after some bad experiences... grin
Nov 29, 2010 10:49 AM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
Ralphy2407
Ralphy2407Ralphy2407Veliko Tarnovo, Veliko Turnovo Bulgaria10 Threads 142 Posts
callofdutymn: Im seeing alot of people on here from all over the world, so Im curious to see what people think...



frustrated My passport probably...
Nov 29, 2010 10:56 AM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
doberman3: I met someone not from CS. He was from England. What a mistake. We had hardly know each other a month and was talking about getting married in 2011.
It was going too fast. I broke up with him last week. It was too much.

So I voted no.

But I would say with the right person it might be fine. But now, my trust in long distance relationships is lacking completely.

I am convinced that it is too hard to really know that person without being around them alot. So I will stick to dating in the USA.

Though I am thinking about dating a person in another state 12 hours from me.
I think we have alot in common. Plus, a risk is a risk, but at least we are not nearly 5,000 miles apart.

The Dobe


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing comfort sorry to hear that Dobe grin doh rolling on the floor laughing hug hug bouquet rose rose rose
Nov 29, 2010 1:46 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
doberman3: I met someone not from CS. He was from England. What a mistake. We had hardly know each other a month and was talking about getting married in 2011.
It was going too fast. I broke up with him last week. It was too much.

So I voted no.

But I would say with the right person it might be fine. But now, my trust in long distance relationships is lacking completely.

I am convinced that it is too hard to really know that person without being around them alot. So I will stick to dating in the USA.

Though I am thinking about dating a person in another state 12 hours from me.
I think we have alot in common. Plus, a risk is a risk, but at least we are not nearly 5,000 miles apart.

The Dobe
hug
Nov 29, 2010 3:13 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
No I wouldnt, I want to date someone I can see at least every weekend, not once every month or so...
Nov 29, 2010 3:17 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
MetalgirlPlush
MetalgirlPlushMetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA15 Threads 875 Posts
callofdutymn: Im seeing alot of people on here from all over the world, so Im curious to see what people think...
No, I wont date someone in another country! First of all dating is like a casual twice a week thing,movies,dinner,a cocktail.Ummm how can i do that with someone in Siberia(boban no pun intended) lol. Maybe it works for some ppl but very long distance just is not realistic for me!wave
Nov 29, 2010 3:18 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
MetalgirlPlush
MetalgirlPlushMetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA15 Threads 875 Posts
MetalgirlPlush: No, I wont date someone in another country! First of all dating is like a casual twice a week thing,movies,dinner,a cocktail.Ummm how can i do that with someone in Siberia(boban no pun intended) lol. Maybe it works for some ppl but very long distance just is not realistic for me!
Serbia lmaorolling on the floor laughing sorry boban ..lol
Nov 29, 2010 3:19 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
MetalgirlPlush
MetalgirlPlushMetalgirlPlushSan Francisco, California USA15 Threads 875 Posts
xxfrecklesxx: No I wouldnt, I want to date someone I can see at least every weekend, not once every month or so...
thumbs up
Nov 29, 2010 4:30 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
islandgirl2
islandgirl2islandgirl2Nijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands10 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Burned My Whole Hand

Better look for someone with the same Citizenship as you...

Because Immigrations is in Control, and wants Money Too....

anyone wanting to Go to another country, to Stay and get residence,and or Citizenship, and Work, is in for a long, and expensive Journey, Then add Airfare to that, and the Lack of Jobs to that, Then some extra Money...just in case...

Its a long, winding, and expensive journey..... and MANY times, it dont work out.....for various reasons...But many have done it......and some of them probably survive it...

But I think I need a Citizen Of The USA... from My experience


Been there, done that.
Nov 29, 2010 4:31 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I would.very happy
Nov 29, 2010 4:32 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
islandgirl2
islandgirl2islandgirl2Nijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands10 Posts
doberman3: I met someone not from CS. He was from England. What a mistake. We had hardly know each other a month and was talking about getting married in 2011.
It was going too fast. I broke up with him last week. It was too much.

So I voted no.

But I would say with the right person it might be fine. But now, my trust in long distance relationships is lacking completely.

I am convinced that it is too hard to really know that person without being around them alot. So I will stick to dating in the USA.

Though I am thinking about dating a person in another state 12 hours from me.
I think we have alot in common. Plus, a risk is a risk, but at least we are not nearly 5,000 miles apart.

The Dobe



After knowing each other for only a month, wee bit too soon to be talking about marriage!
Dec 8, 2010 7:25 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
saved777
saved777saved777Lakeside,Az, Arizona USA3 Posts
I think that if you are legal in the U.S., I would not mind seeing someone from another country.
Dec 9, 2010 6:23 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
Danceincuba
DanceincubaDanceincubaA, Florida USA11 Posts
I could barely sustain a relationship the next state over, a 6 hour drive. Let's just say I wouldn't start one.
Dec 16, 2010 2:56 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
cuddles1970
cuddles1970cuddles1970san diego, California USA1 Posts
callofdutymn: Im seeing alot of people on here from all over the world, so Im curious to see what people think...
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Jan 9, 2011 11:46 PM CST Would You Date someone Who Lives in another Country??? What would you look for???
vcroome
vcroomevcroomeHolyoke, Massachusetts USA1 Threads 46 Posts
I would, but only if we could be together in real life in the foreseeable future. He'd have to be willing to move here, or he'd have to be in a country I'd be willing to move to. Language barrier doesn't really bother me, I've studied 7 languages so far and feel confident I could learn whatever language I'd need to to live in another country, but only if it's a safe country with a good economy.

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