Marriage or Live Togather? and Why (203)
Kattsrose: If the cat was not wild before it would be after.I really never used to even think of saying things like that.
My boss was a real quiet/reserved man. We were walking down the hall one day and he told me to go meet with someone I didn't like nor did he.
I said that... and he almost went to tears laughing. It was funny seeing him laugh that hard.
Buffy327: Now, that was not very nice...LOL Don't u have any faith in our potential relationship lasting?????
please re-read the post.
cgedvr: LMAO
What about opposite attract? Don't U think we could have some awesome times when me make up after all the fights...Come on Freddie, I need a new husband
Kattsrose: If the cat was not wild before it would be after.I really never used to even think of saying things like that.
Are You Blushing now?
Me>>>>>>>
And for the record.... I wouldn't. 
Don't like cats and down have sandpaper.
Don't like cats and down have sandpaper.
Buffy327: What about opposite attract? Don't U think we could have some awesome times when me make up after all the fights...Come on Freddie, I need a new husband
I'll help you search CS... I'll come up w/a list for you.
Buffy327: What about opposite attract? Don't U think we could have some awesome times when me make up after all the fights...Come on Freddie, I need a new husband
husband or house...I've been married before once and engaged two other times, which all ended badly...one time down the plank and two dry runs, which didn't work out..I'm trying a different route.
I know it's not for me and I accept that, all signs have told me this and now I believe it. I'm not at all soured on marriage, just don't see it as being something important by which I have to set my goals by and it won't make me love a man any more or less.
To those that do..I wish the best, to those that do not, I understand and we all have our own reasons, so I respect everyone's choice.
I know it's not for me and I accept that, all signs have told me this and now I believe it. I'm not at all soured on marriage, just don't see it as being something important by which I have to set my goals by and it won't make me love a man any more or less.
To those that do..I wish the best, to those that do not, I understand and we all have our own reasons, so I respect everyone's choice.
Buffy327: What about opposite attract? Don't U think we could have some awesome times when me make up after all the fights...Come on Freddie, I need a new husband
Yeah...you could get the sofa one night....and I'd take it the next night.
cgedvr: husband or house...
Well husband of course, I love Freddie, and I know I could make him happy....<wink> If only he would give our relationship a try.
Buffy327: OH HECK NO...We would be having some serious make up love...then u would love me...<wink>
I'll be honest...I'm enjoying being a bachelor.
grannyluvsu47: i wish we could pick more then 1. i pick the live together because i learned the hard way and also live together because i think two get along better ,then sometimes also this 1 live together protects my assets.it is hard to just pick 1 out of it all. i just think with the divorce rate is so high that living together for more then 5 years ,u should be ruled has a marrie couple.just dnt need the paper anymore.it sometimes hurts marriages instead.i learned from living a hard 30 years of marriage before.but some family religion needs u to be married for it to be ok bye God up above.just see what works for u and ur guy.
Yes this is a Hard Question....and we all have our reasons for our answers,
I also thought it would be a good Discussion,
as I have to say,
Im Not sure the right answer either...
Tho Would Hope a relationship to Grow into Marriage over Time, and Spend this life with someone Likeminded
Tho Not Many think Like me....
The Big question is, Could they Tollerate me?
OR YOU?
Buffy327: Well husband of course, I love Freddie, and I know I could make him happy....<wink> If only he would give our relationship a try.
This isn't a comedy thread!
HotrodLarrys: Viewpoints?
I think living together is an excellent way of finding out what each other is like.If it doesnt work out then move on.No worries!
lilmamma71: I've been married before once and engaged two other times, which all ended badly...one time down the plank and two dry runs, which didn't work out..I'm trying a different route.
I know it's not for me and I accept that, all signs have told me this and now I believe it. I'm not at all soured on marriage, just don't see it as being something important by which I have to set my goals by and it won't make me love a man any more or less.
To those that do..I wish the best, to those that do not, I understand and we all have our own reasons, so I respect everyone's choice.
I know it's not for me and I accept that, all signs have told me this and now I believe it. I'm not at all soured on marriage, just don't see it as being something important by which I have to set my goals by and it won't make me love a man any more or less.
To those that do..I wish the best, to those that do not, I understand and we all have our own reasons, so I respect everyone's choice.
Nice Answer lilmamma71
I also dont need Paper to CLAIRIFY Love,
I would rather Clarify Love with a Duration Time Spent togather...
Buffy327: Well husband of course, I love Freddie, and I know I could make him happy....<wink> If only he would give our relationship a try.
You're gonna have to fight me for him Buffy....we got a thing going on here, have had for a while now!!!!
if you love another person and want to be with that person the rest of your life.....
hell, what do i know....i'm setting all alone at a damn computer...
hell, what do i know....i'm setting all alone at a damn computer...
leigh2154: You're gonna have to fight me for him Buffy....we got a thing going on here, have had for a while now!!!!
Yea, right, like my Freddie wants a conservative in his bed...LOL Not happening
Buffy327: Yea, right, like my Freddie wants a conservative in his bed...LOL Not happening
Whats a conservative Buffy, I'm confused???
leigh2154: Whats a conservative Buffy, I'm confused???
Is that someone who only does it missionary style......
justy27: Come on! GO Freddy and Buffy!
Get it on!
Get it on!
That would be similiar to me proposing to Nancy Pelosi...
This almost sounds like a Dream, I do think Living Closer is better, It Gives time to really get to know one another,
THEN, You are both free to make More Educated Decisions...
Of How far it goes in time, Quick Marriage I dont believe is allways a good Policy..
I totally agree with you Larry on this.
Intially living together should be considered wisely even if marriage be the next step in the future relationship....or not.
But living together or marriage if there is no love it makes no sense to me.
Out there in the real world how it is getting the word "partner" is the more general. To share finances, to not feel alone, to have some fun, to find someone in a certain time for friendship etc..........
But marriage is a holy thing and that's how I see it.
THEN, You are both free to make More Educated Decisions...
Of How far it goes in time, Quick Marriage I dont believe is allways a good Policy..
I totally agree with you Larry on this.
Intially living together should be considered wisely even if marriage be the next step in the future relationship....or not.
But living together or marriage if there is no love it makes no sense to me.
Out there in the real world how it is getting the word "partner" is the more general. To share finances, to not feel alone, to have some fun, to find someone in a certain time for friendship etc..........
But marriage is a holy thing and that's how I see it.
jlw45: if you love another person and want to be with that person the rest of your life.....
hell, what do i know....i'm setting all alone at a damn computer...
hell, what do i know....i'm setting all alone at a damn computer...
Thats what I was afraid You were going to say!!!!
Thats what Im Sayin, Too!
I just wondered if ANYBODY Could shed some Light
Ms Miama....the wasn't directed at you!
wasn't directed at you!leigh2154: Is that someone who only does it missionary style......
Well, whatever, when you come up with an answer, give me a hollar Buff....
leigh2154: Is that someone who only does it missionary style......
I would be the liberal one here....
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We each have our own place...
We don't live too far from one another...
We float from one place to the other some of the time...
We each do our own thing some of the time...
We are faithful and support each other because we love one another very much whist being conscious, accepting and respecting our own individual needs.
This almost sounds like a Dream, I do think Living Closer is better, It Gives time to really get to know one another,
THEN, You are both free to make More Educated Decisions...
Of How far it goes in time, Quick Marriage I dont believe is allways a good Policy..
Nice Response, Thanks!