Would you let your partner partake in the forum chit chat on a dating site? (130)
I guess it all comes down to trust...
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some people like to come on here just to chat in the forums
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redozichick: some people like to come on here just to chat in the forums
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normalguy68: It just seems my views are opposite to the norm and I was wondering how far from the norm I was?
I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.
Just thought Id share this. I split with my ex after more than 20 yrs, 11 yrs ago coz she was hooked on the chat rooms. she wasnt looking for anyone and still hasnt found anyone. 2 yrs later I thought if u cant beat em join em. we're best of friends but we still split.I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.
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tonyxf: Just thought Id share this. I split with my ex after more than 20 yrs, 11 yrs ago coz she was hooked on the chat rooms. she wasnt looking for anyone and still hasnt found anyone. 2 yrs later I thought if u cant beat em join em. we're best of friends but we still split.
TonyThanks for sharing...
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normalguy68: It just seems my views are opposite to the norm and I was wondering how far from the norm I was?
I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.
I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.
I thought life with someone was about being together and not being rulled over .....I'm sure you will be single for a long time with that attidude
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kezza007: Tony
Thanks for sharing...
Honest, she was a great person still is, but but for 2 yrs b4 we split I may as well have lived on my own. It can be addictive.Thanks for sharing...
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virgosingle: I thought life with someone was about being together and not being rulled over .....I'm sure you will be single for a long time with that attidude
exactly, however if my partner took issue over me being on this site (being a singles site), I would respect his wishes and leave. I can still keep contact with friends through other means such as msn, yahoo, skype, FB.. etc------ This poll is Archived ------
akaRALF: exactly, however if my partner took issue over me being on this site (being a singles site), I would respect his wishes and leave. I can still keep contact with friends through other means such as msn, yahoo, skype, FB.. etc
Fark face book ..
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Twodawgz: Fark face book ..
I agree. Skype is good but i wouldnt touch facebook with my ex's pole. 
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Twodawgz: Fark face book ..
yeah for some dumb reason, I am on there. I cringe every time I get an email saying someone did something and I have to go and reply. 
I have everyone blocked from sending me stupid gifts and requests. I really should delete my profile but in some ways it is a good tool to watch what my kids are up to. 
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bonsai: I agree. Skype is good but i wouldnt touch facebook with my ex's pole.
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akaRALF: exactly, however if my partner took issue over me being on this site (being a singles site), I would respect his wishes and leave. I can still keep contact with friends through other means such as msn, yahoo, skype, FB.. etc
I totally agree. it is an issue between the two people in the relationship not some judgemental irritating turd on a dating site who thinks he can tell everyone else how to live with his 1950's values....
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akaRALF: exactly, however if my partner took issue over me being on this site (being a singles site), I would respect his wishes and leave. I can still keep contact with friends through other means such as msn, yahoo, skype, FB.. etc
Got asked this today and yet I found it hard to say yes straight out as I do enjoy been part of the forums most of the time but if the time comes and we do decide to take things further,then yes I will
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morebloodyrisks: I totally agree. it is an issue between the two people in the relationship not some judgemental irritating turd on a dating site who thinks he can tell everyone else how to live with his 1950's values....
And we all know your values now.
Glad I have mine and a dating site is the last place I'll be spending my weekend when I'm hitched again.
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normalguy68: It just seems my views are opposite to the norm and I was wondering how far from the norm I was?
I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.
I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.
It seems to me when you mention "letting your partner" do something that perhaps you need a lesson in english. I think the term you meant to use could have been possession as in "letting your possession" do something?
I hope that this very short lesson in the language has been of some help to you.
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underwaterman: It seems to me when you mention "letting your partner" do something that perhaps you need a lesson in english. I think the term you meant to use could have been possession as in "letting your possession" do something?
I hope that this very short lesson in the language has been of some help to you.
I hope that this very short lesson in the language has been of some help to you.
I'll re-word it for you in plain english.
Would you stay with your partner if he/she was a member on an online dating site?
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yes
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normalguy68: I'll re-word it for you in plain english.
Would you stay with your partner if he/she was a member on an online dating site?
Would you stay with your partner if he/she was a member on an online dating site?
.. but then does it really matter when its easy enough to be on sites like facebook and do the same as on a dating site....
if your partner is that way inclined then they will take up any oportunity they can .... dating site or not
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morebloodyrisks: ]
Oh joy .. thank the Lord... I am not on your top friends list...because I swear like a bad boy....
Oh joy .. thank the Lord... I am not on your top friends list...because I swear like a bad boy....
If hanging your effluent on me with your foul language is enjoyable, by all means, knock your self out.
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normalguy68: You're so deffensive about your rights to do as you please that you give yourself away, i don't need to say a thing.
Keep going though with your negative, rude, swearing and put downs of me if you like, just shows everyone the way you talk in the real world off the www.
Keep going though with your negative, rude, swearing and put downs of me if you like, just shows everyone the way you talk in the real world off the www.
I have personally met MBR as have others on this site and he is the most caring, generous, selfless, thoughtful, funny, charming & open man I have met in a very long time. I find it really insulting that you would assume to know what he is like regarding his relationship and I can assure you, actually I would put my life on it, that he would NEVER go behind his lovely partner's back.
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akaRALF: he must have real insecurity and lack of trust which also equates to a low self esteem. If you have to question every little thing your partner does out of fear of them cheating, then you have more to worry about in your relationship than them straying and in fact may help deliver them to the arms of another.
So even though 80% of the people in the courts are using fb and other forum sites as reasons why they have broken up or for evidence of inproper behaviour, you choose to defend your addiction to forums.
There are counceling and support groups for this addiction you know.
That's why people are on here and not with their partner doing the horizontal limbo, to addicted to the chat.
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normalguy68: So even though 80% of the people in the courts are using fb and other forum sites as reasons why they have broken up or for evidence of inproper behaviour, you choose to defend your addiction to forums.
There are counceling and support groups for this addiction you know.
That's why people are on here and not with their partner doing the horizontal limbo, to addicted to the chat.
There are counceling and support groups for this addiction you know.
That's why people are on here and not with their partner doing the horizontal limbo, to addicted to the chat.
Well my partner is overseas so no chance of me doing anything horizontal with him at the moment. What if I was at the pub? I could pick up there, or at the shops, hell, I get hit on every day at work, should I stop working just in case?
I am not the straying type, I am committed to my partner and if he were here, I wouldn't be sitting on the computer much at all because, yes, I would be spending my time with him. Again, not that it is any of your business. Maybe you are jealous that others can have a trusting relationship without all the hangups about being cheated on and you can't.
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akaRALF: I have personally met MBR as have others on this site and he is the most caring, generous, selfless, thoughtful, funny, charming & open man I have met in a very long time. I find it really insulting that you would assume to know what he is like regarding his relationship and I can assure you, actually I would put my life on it, that he would NEVER go behind his lovely partner's back.
Awww thanks RALF 
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akaRALF: Well if you have said half the crap you have said in here to someone's face I am sure they would skip the swearing and direct a punch to your head, but then again, I am guessing you wouldn't be rude enough, man enough or have the balls to say to someone in the real world the same as you have said here to their face.
you can take that to the bank
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akaRALF: Well my partner is overseas so no chance of me doing anything horizontal with him at the moment. What if I was at the pub? I could pick up there, or at the shops, hell, I get hit on every day at work, should I stop working just in case?
I am not the straying type, I am committed to my partner and if he were here, I wouldn't be sitting on the computer much at all because, yes, I would be spending my time with him. Again, not that it is any of your business. Maybe you are jealous that others can have a trusting relationship without all the hangups about being cheated on and you can't.
I am not the straying type, I am committed to my partner and if he were here, I wouldn't be sitting on the computer much at all because, yes, I would be spending my time with him. Again, not that it is any of your business. Maybe you are jealous that others can have a trusting relationship without all the hangups about being cheated on and you can't.
Ditto
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morebloodyrisks: Awww thanks RALF
You know I mean every word of it.
Better be careful we are not accused of doing each other behind both our partners backs.
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akaRALF: You know I mean every word of it.
Better be careful we are not accused of doing each other behind both our partners backs.
Better be careful we are not accused of doing each other behind both our partners backs.
yes a long distance affair to match our respective LDR's
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morebloodyrisks: yes a long distance affair to match our respective LDR's
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Would you let your partner partake in the forum chit chat on a dating site?(Vote Below)
I know of friends who split because of this very subject and with the amount of divorce cases that use FB evidence of inproprietry, you'd have to wonder why any couple would do this type of thing.