Why is this dating thing so hard? (43)
justlove1966: I think it is not hard it is the way you present yourself the first time.
Last night joined a site, pic approved today, had 185 mails. Have not got through them yet, but in the 30 I replied to have 5 dates, 4 for coffee and one for the movies. Not bad for an old chick eh! None of them as old as me either, all under the 50! I am chuffed. So its not so hard if you put your mind to it. 
Ccincy: To some people being perfect matters more then most things.If only some people would accept others for who they are.
I agree, people need to wake up and see the other side!
I would go crazy with a perosn that would be perfect because I am NOT ONE!!
I am a creative mind that has both side both sides of her brain working and it would kill me to be with a simple perfect person!
Sailfree: Last night joined a site, pic approved today, had 185 mails. Have not got through them yet, but in the 30 I replied to have 5 dates, 4 for coffee and one for the movies. Not bad for an old chick eh! None of them as old as me either, all under the 50! I am chuffed. So its not so hard if you put your mind to it.
they must like cats
The reason dating is so hard is because some people make it hard.
They turn it into a chore.When it should be enjoyable.
They turn it into a chore.When it should be enjoyable.
justlove1966: I think it is not hard it is the way you present yourself the first time.
i agree,not had a problem with that,its fining that attraction in person...real life and internet viewing is two different things.Sailfree: Last night joined a site, pic approved today, had 185 mails. Have not got through them yet, but in the 30 I replied to have 5 dates, 4 for coffee and one for the movies. Not bad for an old chick eh! None of them as old as me either, all under the 50! I am chuffed. So its not so hard if you put your mind to it.
Did you show them your Pinocchio??
justdave11: What ye all think?
The troble with online thingy is that people are not serious enough.They just are bored,and want something to do . My exsperience is every thing is lovely until you ask to meet for coffee or something then the fright sets inof the reality,and they run like hell
invinciblemuse: Did you show them your Pinocchio??
yeah, perhaps u accidently joined this site
demonfairy: i agree,not had a problem with that,its fining that attraction in person...real life and internet viewing is two different things.
it is.
me in my profession I do know when I have to leave the scene !!
I can see a player from 100 MILES
Sailfree: Last night joined a site, pic approved today, had 185 mails. Have not got through them yet, but in the 30 I replied to have 5 dates, 4 for coffee and one for the movies. Not bad for an old chick eh! None of them as old as me either, all under the 50! I am chuffed. So its not so hard if you put your mind to it.
I prefer quality over quantity.And I can not get my head around how anyone can make any sort of judgment on so many people in such a short space of time regarding them being dating material?
Is this the American way?
Sailfree: Last night joined a site, pic approved today, had 185 mails. Have not got through them yet, but in the 30 I replied to have 5 dates, 4 for coffee and one for the movies. Not bad for an old chick eh! None of them as old as me either, all under the 50! I am chuffed. So its not so hard if you put your mind to it.
Good luck - hopefully you'll find a great guy! 
Sailfree: Last night joined a site, pic approved today, had 185 mails. Have not got through them yet, but in the 30 I replied to have 5 dates, 4 for coffee and one for the movies. Not bad for an old chick eh! None of them as old as me either, all under the 50! I am chuffed. So its not so hard if you put your mind to it.
What site is that??
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When I split from my ex I joined a pay dating site,created a very detailed profile about who and what I am and who I was looking for.I presumed that I would find my ideal match from that and conducted myself too seriously. From that I met a few women who where utterly not for me after long discussions.
I think that we all evolve in this online dating mallarky and eventually work out a strategy that works for us.
But a big mistake is falling for someone too quickly too soon before ever meeting.
80% is attraction and chemistry that you only feel once meeting.