sally101: Quite agree with that - some people can find me a bit stand offish but I'm actually really chatty if can find some commonality and it can be something quite small or trivial ...
Would you agree that most of us have a tendency to gravitate towards those that we would expect to have something in common with?
delamer: Would you agree that most of us have a tendency to gravitate towards those that we would expect to have something in common with?
i think we do but then once you start talking to the person you realise what you thought was there is one small part of the person and while you might like that part in general theres other parts you dont like or other parts they dont like, thats how its been for me anyway, seems after fellas get to know me most decide im not worth it and they vanish though there are one or two that have hung on in there
salanky: i think we do but then once you start talking to the person you realise what you thought was there is one small part of the person and while you might like that part in general theres other parts you dont like or other parts they dont like, thats how its been for me anyway, seems after fellas get to know me most decide im not worth it and they vanish though there are one or two that have hung on in there
delamer: Would you agree that most of us have a tendency to gravitate towards those that we would expect to have something in common with?
Probably, although I've always found it easier to chat to guys rather than girls - and in general, always been like that - through work and whatever - not just "chatting up" type situations. My oldest friends are male and outside of my best friend, so would most of my casual friends.
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Would you agree that most of us have a tendency to gravitate towards those that we would expect to have something in common with?