It means that someone does not want to fully commit but rather prefer to mess/sleep around. Usually a clear sign to stay away from those kind of people.
At the end of the day,Men want to come home to a woman who is able to listen,and hear the voice of his heart when he comes from work.A man wants TRUTH from the heart of a woman with compassion,respect and love.A real woman understands the heart of a man,cherish,respect and love him unconditionally.A real man wants this woman..
And yes I never ever had a lack of attention in real life. But should that prevent me from broaden my horizon? I met some truly wonderful and great people on this site (from other countries) that I otherwise would have never met/get in contact with.
To be honest I get many of these things (and also messages) if I had to reply on everything I simply would have no life anymore. 24/7 replying.. And don't forget a lot of women here on this site get 40/50 messages per day.
I personally usually only reply on people who seriously take the time to get to know you. A single flower or just a 1 word message saying 'hello' sounds pretty uninterested and lame to me.
And also many people have issues and lives that 'prevents' them from further contacting. They got a relationship in the meantime, personal problems or suddenly a very busy schedule and so on..
Don't take it personally please :) It got usually nothing to do with you as a person.
Well you could make silly money where you live. A friend of mine was recently able to buy a new car with the money he made with second hand Jamaican vinyl records..
People die due to cancer, die of hunger in africa, got shot to pieces in Libya because they want freedom and a better future. And you complain that you have a job that does not suit you. Try to see things in perspective..
It's not about looks mate. I wrote this before on someone's blog a while ago. In the end we all turn old and gray, that makes us all equal. People got to look beyond that. See what is in your heart and mind. And those who can only look beyond the outside are shallow and not worth it. Simple as that.
I dated models before. Speaking out of experience. Some looked great but had the intelligence of a money (with all due respect) on the longer term it only leads to frustration (on both sides) disappointment etc.
And please don't play the race card. Black or white does not matter. If someone really goes for you than it does not matter what background ethnicity,religion, color you have. If someone truly cares about you none of those things matter in the first place. It's all about what goes on in your heart.
Happened to me several times. You speak to people online for a while. When you meet them (or shortly before) you hear 'In reality I'm pretty different' In other words 'I put up a pokerface all the time' .And the last one send me photos that were 5 years old.. ( just check out the meta data of a photo, very simple..)
have patience. You are still very young and you have all the chances and opportunities to make something beautiful out of your life :)
Remember it's all about the path to, and not the goal itself. Pursue personal dreams and live true to yourself.Learn to know yourself and accept yourself for who you are and the rest will eventually follow :)
I think life will be become very depressing and unfulfilled if you put it in that perspective. Constantly see people go that you care about. Not about the fashion, behavior, talk etc those things are not important I believe. It's the emotional side: you care about people, you have a connection with them etc etc
On a sidenote: I once saved a child's life from drowning. It changed my whole perspective on life and death to be honest.
Don't know. You must be doing something wrong. I registered about 2 weeks ago. And I'm now regularly/daily corresponding with some amazing and truly cool people.. :)
I contacted several people when I fist registered (maybe 7 or 8 people, you know, just to give it a try) I think I had no reply from 2 or 3. But like written above... Some people are seriously not interested or currently having a relationship or have emotional problems at the moments etc.
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RE: Relationship Status
It means that someone does not want to fully commit but rather prefer to mess/sleep around. Usually a clear sign to stay away from those kind of people.