I thought that perhaps this quotation could bring a bit of clarity and brightness during this difficult moment:
"Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be.- Charles "Tremendous" Jones
Cheer up and keep your heart open. BTW, have you read "Act like a lady think like a man", Steve Harvey. I will help you to clarify what sort of messages you are sending to the men you are meeting and how your messages are in balance with the needs of your heart. Bona Chance,
like WEEPING, i have walked across the graveyard of love and found was littered with lies, decaying and deceit. It left me brokenhearted, down to the ground and with trust issues.
To love you must have found the love within yourself first. Love is something you have to prove and that is built and gained. Not all are blessed with it.
Hi takeme... I am very sorry for your lost Life is only worth living once you found real love, and you did. Be who you really want to be and always follow your heart regardless what the others might want you to be or do. Sometimes, no matter how much faith we have, we lose people. But you never forget them. And sometimes, it's those memories that give us the strength to go on.
hey party, thanks for the explanation. I was referring to assisted reproduction... but hey, you brought a new point. Agree with you, lots of chickens in the farm of life.... ahh... what a shame....
and thanks for sharing. You have been very lucky to have such a wonderful example in your family! Guess we singles should keep believing and working hard for it, have a nice weekend and stay warm
a sad story that sounds familiar to me... long distance dating could be a real challenge as you don't have the closeness to build a healthy relationship and learn about your partner emotional clues. People need to be able to communicate and relate well, specially in times of change or stress, and long distant relationships have always a high degree of uncertainty as you have to trust blindly what the other partner says.
Being a single and independent woman myself I have found the experience really disappointing as my experience tells me majority of men would say anything you like to hear to keep you around. Once they have managed to gain your interest that is when the surprises arise: problems with an ex, criticism towards the ex, troubles with legal procedures and children, troubles with finance .... and so on.
Who can believe a partner who decided to get to the dating world with such a drama and troubles on his side? Why do men always believe they are the victims in a relation? I have never had any negative thinking about men until I have started dating with them....
I guess is time for you guys to stop victimism and reflect on why do women have such a negative thinking about them.
What comes first the chicken or the egg....
For all the women out there! keep the chin high!!!
Gladlol, good idea though... let's begin by working on them first (the married husbands)... I am sure there is big profit out of the service. We will think about wives later... let's don't get greedy
Gladlol, why don't we run a consulting therapy business....? I am sure could be highly profitable. Let me know your thought about it, I know a programmer who can help to with the operations Keep smiling!!
unfortunately is the way we do humans seem to choose first, by the looks, don't agree with you all women consider of same importance the bank balance. The first impression comes first, but I personally appreciate more a wonderful smile and the magic in a person's eyes, they say a lot!
The question of the looks could be tricky, as you never know wether is going to work on your favor or against you. Don't let a wrong opinion mine your intentions, if you are determined to find love you will find it. Perhaps a better picture of yourself could help.
RE: Dating with kids, yes or no?
South,could not agree more!
Imlost there are plenty of fish in the sea, don't despair! If you get the opportunity have a look to :
Bona Chance!