LDR and trust
Having geographical distance for couples is really a challenge to keep positive thinking and trust.Few days ago I met a friend who supposed to get married but he decided to cancel the marriage after the lady accused him having another woman due to less frequent of telephone communication. Interesting that he said "I loved her but I couldn't resist on her negative thinking about me. I didn't even think of having another affair!"
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Seams like some people just want to get married, no matter what?
a sad story that sounds familiar to me... long distance dating could be a real challenge as you don't have the closeness to build a healthy relationship and learn about your partner emotional clues. People need to be able to communicate and relate well, specially in times of change or stress, and long distant relationships have always a high degree of uncertainty as you have to trust blindly what the other partner says.
Being a single and independent woman myself I have found the experience really disappointing as my experience tells me majority of men would say anything you like to hear to keep you around. Once they have managed to gain your interest that is when the surprises arise: problems with an ex, criticism towards the ex, troubles with legal procedures and children, troubles with finance .... and so on.
Who can believe a partner who decided to get to the dating world with such a drama and troubles on his side? Why do men always believe they are the victims in a relation? I have never had any negative thinking about men until I have started dating with them....
I guess is time for you guys to stop victimism and reflect on why do women have such a negative thinking about them.
What comes first the chicken or the egg....
so true ..... with LDRs you don't see him but have to believe what he says, most of them lies, he will say what he thinks you need to hear just to string you along