if you ever gave it up, because it caused problems in your life, it can be a slippery slope to indulge again, just the 1 EH, and the 2, and the 3,,,,,,,
yes you are correct, God had a message, man made religions, and highjacked the whole business, and we are fighting each other with murderous wars, in his name, ever since, how ashamed of us, he must be.
why change anyone, it is those unique individual qualities, that attract you to them in the first place, if you cannot accept someone for who they are, without trying to remold them, you shouldn't be with them in the first place, we should simply enhance those special qualities already there, in each other, in doing so, we bring out the best in each other.
some of the happiest people i ever knew, had nothing but each other, and that's the most important thing of all, negotiating relationships relative to income, is literally status related arrangements, and people in that bracket, never find real happiness, but they do find a business partner, to live with, sometimes people forget what simple love is, for many reasons.
sorry for the late response, SPD, my few friends have proved themselves, time, and time again, I'm sure, they are real life friends, not on-line acquaintances, which some people often mistake as friends, there is a difference, as many people find out, to there cost.
i couldn't care less, if the poor girl was a pauper, if she loved me, and i loved her, that's all that matters to me, money never comes in to it, i love the simple things in life, so its never an issue.
we cannot choose, who we fall in love with, its like the people with a 60 choice wish list, that's an arrangement, and whatever chance you have with love, with the arrangement, you will never truly be happy, because you compromised yourself from the start.
just try and make sure Citra, that you don't rush into marrying some idiot, who wont be kind to you, here's a virtual baby, for you to play with, in the mean time,
Wonderful song SPD aint it, getting ready to hit THE MARINE BAR, outside Dungarvan, on the south coast, for a night of music and reveler y, I'll continue my Saturday night reflections from there,
Well its 7-30 here, and I'm banging away at the keyboard, for another 30 minutes or so, got asked out, so I'm going to a music session in a pub, it feels great to be going out for awhile.
RE: W T F !!
i often wonder why God, made us on Sunday, when he was tired, maybe that's why we are so bad, at being good.