Hello catnap. I know this may sound selffish but I wanted to be the one to save her. I love her so much, but I had to realize that she just doesn't want my help now. It hurts that I wasn't about to help her, but she made the choice to not accept that help. I just hope nothing bad happens to her.
Thanks everyone for your comments. You are all right. She has her issues and I hope that she works them out. I still love her very much, but I do need to move on with my life because I'm not able to handle her problems because she doesn't want to change. Hopefully she will before it's too late.
Thanks Vinny. You know, I've told her several times that I thought it would be in her best interest if she got some help. She's very bi-polar at times. She's been through a lot and I think that if she actually got some help she might ok. You are probably right though. It's probably best that I move on. It's very hard to when you love someone and they are one of your best friends. Thanks for your thoughts though Vinny. I appreciate them.
One thing I've noticed, on other dating sites in particular. When asked about what they (a woman) would like in their partner, their job status: any, their living arraingements: any, their education: any, whether they had kids: any, body: ripped or in shape lol. Oh well, good to know that things that should be important aren't. lol
I talked to her about an hour ago. She seems ok, she just needs time and that I will give her. I mean what do I really have to lose at this point. Hopefully she learn be ok and find some happiness again. She told me that she couldn't say that she wouldn't love me in the future, she just needs time. Yes we are young, I'm 22 and she's 23. Thank you for your comments. God bless.
Pretty insightful and honest. Hard to find that in a woman. That's how my ex is, and I love her to death still, but she makes things way more difficult than they really are. I haven't totally given up on you women though lol.
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A Friendship That's Finally Ended
Hello catnap. I know this may sound selffish but I wanted to be the one to save her. I love her so much, but I had to realize that she just doesn't want my help now. It hurts that I wasn't about to help her, but she made the choice to not accept that help. I just hope nothing bad happens to her.