In your situation I would go to the police, do the paperwork, and tell them to hold off on moving forward with the charges. Then show the paperwork to the thieves so they know you mean business. Give them a deadline to pay you back and stick to it. If they don't meet the deadline, tell the cops to proceed.
I agree and respect your choices. I'm a very happy single man because I want to be. I've got it made! Very happy with my own company and I don't feel like I'm lacking for anything.
I couldn't fall in love that way. Without real life time spent together, there's no real eye contact, body language, or chemistry. I'm a firm believer in people meeting the old fashioned way. In person.
I didn't watch the video, Legs, but I don't have anything to complain about at all. I wouldn't complain if I did. Plenty of people are less fortunate than I am, and I don't take what I have for granted. Best wishes.
RE: finding my husband
You pop a button on those shorts and someone's gonna get hurt.