If we want it to be predictable...we still can't predict it.....no matter how perfectly we plane it.....nature is always a step ahead to surprise you back!
I agree with your thought, sometimes kids surprise me more with there thoughts about things......general things i mean.....I m learning fiction aspect from them about general things.
That is not good to not ask an imp person you have been with which has bothered you....keeping it for 15 yrs ...that is some serious time.
If it still bothers you than do ask ...but whatif your assumptions were not true ....than how will u forgive yourself and the time you wasted for something which was not there in the first place.
What to do?
JohnUnpredictably predictable!