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Can we really change another and is it right to try?
There will be things about any significant other we may not like. If it's that big of a hang up, walk away and leave them alone.
Working together and making adjustments is a large part of what it's about with a partner. If I feel like I have to compete with something out of normal "boundaries"( i.e, children,etc) in their lives, why would I bother? Why should they or I, have to give up any thing? There are already many people that have made up their minds in certain traits and habits they won't deal with as it is. Does this close potential doors? Very much yes!
It's not a person's job to change or change some one else to fit "ideals". If both can't come together naturally knowing and accepting the other; it defeats the purpose of having some one for "you" and accepting them for being "them".
There's a point where it's may no longer be "them" your with, but maybe some one you've molded more into "you". Once things like this start. they tend to not stop until some one makes it stop.
If some one got close enough to me to start with and they said I had to stop playing in our Orchestra and Brass bands and that involves time away at concerts and other detail I do , the only time I,ll stop is when I cant play or be involved with our groups .
No person will stop me and that's the end of the matter,
I doubt I,ll need to be bothered about some one getting close to me any way, and its not I,m so wrapped up with our music, its, no one is interested in myself to even be a part of my life , in it becoming as a couple or having a partner long term,
So music comes first.
...noeleena...
Either me or that.
So i think the only thing I'd give up in that circumstance is the person who asked me to give something up.
Sorry to have such a dull reason!
Peace
Naah, Aside from my son, I'll give up anything else to be with someone who's worth it. yeah, no holds barred when it comes to passion and love
Its equal to controlling the other person if you expect the conditioning of someone's natural disposition. Cutting the story short, never if asked for.
But yes when living with a person I notice that the other person feels uncomfortable with something, with my habits, behaviour or actions, I would like to improvise for sure.
Especially about my passion, passion is a passion, the second beloved. Not a thing to be negotiable, no way, nothing doing.