come on men respect the ladies if someone sent you a message and u dont like her or /him just let it go. u are not entitled to answer and u must not mention it to another.
the best relationship is with your best friend u already know her all her flaws and more .
it can also cause you to lose that relationship as a sister if it was to go wrong .
but i think u need to find out whats her motive if it is coz u now become an opportunity for her or the real thing.
if it was me i would tell her i am coming home for good and see her reaction.
a lot of times people sees a bigger picture and take advantage .
i know of a case where the girl even say she was pregnant after being friend with this married man for a while and because of his divorce she took advantage of his vulnerability at that time to say she had wanted him for a long time .
then with the pregnancy comes danger to the child and she needs money to do operation to save the child as it would have been his first , i was the one who was there coz he was abroad working now after a while there was an opportunity for her to go away to work and there went the baby.
she wasnt pregnant but was taking his money constantly for doctor bills .
she saw a bigger pic with him and she took it after being his friend for so long.
yes thats y i said its not as if u all are waking up in the same house so so it doesnt matter what others think or say it doesnt affect u so lets all just ignore each others comment and be friends as use to. its a beautigul day lets give thanks for the strength and the life most of all the opportunity to be here and not sick or dead
know what i love other than KFC? is when all u ladies are living in harmony and making weird comments on each other blogs that i can read and smile to myself ,
it helps me to get through some hard days and feel a sense of pride now all must stop talking and be friends .
its not like u have to wake up each mornings and look at each others faces with all those night messes in your eyes and the dried drool at the corner of ur mouth.
lucy i wasnt talking about your comment i read all and i was refering to the heat and the poor choice of words i have seen on come comments thats all was just explaining y i have my flag
snook yes i agree with you, only u know yourself and no one can experience the things u have so no one have the right to judge u and y care what others think? just be yourself and be strong .
stop throwing words at each other as women and adults it doesnt look good at all , we should show some respect for each other .
lets not turn the other cheek .
i understand that a person want to say whats on their mind but whats your need?
do u need others to view you as a disrespectful person who doesnt know how to behave in public? come on behave and be friends we should not let some foolishness get the better of us .
and the men as well it takes 2 to tango so lets not fight.
we are all beautiful souls and we are all special , let stay special.
not everyone is gonna like u but the worl is big enough for all of us
how frustrating it is but still i not because i is like that i will settle for the disrespect i know its not only here that it exist but someone once told me that a man is not a king in his own country and i believe him .
meaning u gain more respect from outsiders than your own country men . there are really nice men here but they are all taken, and know what i notice in life ?
the good guys always finish last .
a lot of good people always end up with the tyrants , a good man will chose a woman who doesnt care about him enough who treats him like dirt and so does the women.
but am not worried i know he is out there somewhere who knows
well hope u doesnt find out what it feels like to be used .
coz thats exactly how it feels when u talking to someone and all they ever talks about is what they will do to me etc and what they want to see i like to talk to a person that have a headway plan about what they would like to achieve in life and how they would go about it etc
where u see yourself 5 years from now, things u like to do and places u wish to be and have been your experiences and so on there are many things to talk about a little of each .
give me your views on different topics that doesnt include body parts .
people
No Johnny he ain't worth it I am kool now and my emotions are too good to waste there