....also a many men need constant attention..being second best won't work either..mums will always be mums, to their kids and their grand kids.
What I see is that you get married..have kids..lose what you had between you before you had the kids..argue..split up and mums then spend their years looking after kids..kids grow up and then mums feel they now want a man..coz they are not constantly looking after young kids...seen so much of this.
Mums breed...dont have time for their hubby coz life stressful..kick out husband...or husband has an affair coz he's needy..There are few men that will take on mums with kids..its bloody hard. I was lucky in that the dad was a decent bloke..thats why she remarried him..
Phew..been there done that..was bloody hard.. I met a woman 13 years younger who had 3 kids..was with her for 6 years..good kids but I found it very hard to get close for fear of upsetting my own who was 9 at the time, jealousy. And I didn't want her kids going to their dad saying Ian did this with us and Ian did that.
So I kept my distance..but looking back..their dad was their dad and i was an extension to the family..but I always kept my distance. Inevitably it killed our relationship as the kids do come first, so I left, so in essence it was my distance that destroyed the relationship we had...
Dad moved back in, they got remarried and had another kid..and they are all very happy..so in the end a good choice for all.
I have been in serious relationships since I was 17...up until 2013...im having some me time at the moment...looking for the "one" as they say...so far theres been 15 in the past 2 years...
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after that..im sensitive you know..
..Oh I've forgot GG...you can be 19...
Wheres wally ?
what.you mean next mohammed...just in front of Ahmed ?