Aries01 Blog Comments (4)

RE: The Perfect Man?

I dont think there is such a thing as the perfect man.. because everyones concept of 'perfect' is individual to them.. just be urself and someday u will be some girls perfection, for reasons only known to her

RE: REJECTION-"The ughly "R" word!

I don't know how religious u r, or how spiritual etc. but u strike me as someone who is a little on the judgmental side... if u believe in jesus and learned anything from his teachings u would know that above all else he was about love and forgiveness... even the dullest stone has some shine beneath its surface, just maybe needs someone to come along and have the faith and willingness to polish it... I would say that most people have inadvertantly hurt someone in their lives at some point...and I would say that everyone who did, will most probably look back on that moment and regretted it...

I think if you try and see the positives in people u might be pleasantly surprised.. the dark bits we share and all have in common...human nature.. its the good bits that make us unique and special

RE: QUESTION FOR YOU ALL.

If there is one thing i have learned, in this not so long life of mine, is that life just takes its own course, thats not to say that u just sit at home watching tv waiting for things to happen, just that u kinda have to trust in it, and accept it for what it is... my life feels like that, at first things will happen and u will question 'why me?, this is not going according to plan' and then down the line something else happens and u look back and see how it all makes sense.... life is just as much about learning as it is about living... u r who u r for a reason...

but to answer ur question... am i fulfilled... no... but then isn't that have the fun of it... if i had everything i ever wanted in life now, where would the adventure be?

RE: "A VERY Odd Occurrence..."

I agree with Tollens... just how right r a persons 'gut instincts' relying on them alone can mean that you are relying on subconsious tendencies to be judgmental.. I always think its worth taking the plunge and giving someone a chance... u may be pleasantly surprised and discover aspects to them that you never knew existed... I know loads of people whos marraiges grew initially from friendship and these marraiges seem to be the strongest ones..

Perhaps u have a rose tinted view of what 'love' should be? The best kind is not all flowers and walks on the beach.. the best kind is that which is built on a sincere and genuine foundation..

Whats the worst that can happen?... u may just find that u have acquired a new friend..