The Perfect Man?

Maybe I need to be more clear in my question. I suppose I should direct this to the women. What is more important to you, the intangibles like honesty, consideration, romance a sense of humor and such. Or, things like height, education and income? If you don't want to meet someone because of the latter, how can you find out about the former.
Like I said in my first post, I am not bitter. I have never been bitter about anything in my life. I realize you just have to take my word for this, and any answers that I get will not solve anything. I am just curious, that's all. And yes I know men are the same way in many regards, so now I am beginning to doubt why I even asked. But, too late now.