I don't understand how I wasn't supportive? I offered different ways to help you sleep. Milk, excersice and writing down thoughts. They all work for me and I offered them to you. I wasn't rude in any way. I honestly don't understand your comment.
Thanks, to the original poster, I made some tea and then thought some on this.
I don't think people can actually stop looking they might convince themselves they have and go through the motion attached to such an idea but I think our hearts are always looking, always open and always hoping.
I assume you don't mean playing actual games? Like chess and what not.
As for the other type-mind games. I cannot stand them. They waste time and just have a negative impact on people involved. They are quite pathetic and a sign of immaturity that some people never grow out of.
Lots of exercise works a treat for me. And sometimes i have a warm glass of milk (some people think that's gross for some reason) and/or write down random thoughts to clear your mind.
I'm not sure there are any knights in shiny or unshiny armour.It's hard to purchase swords these days without people judging you unfairly and armour is extremely expensive. Not to mention hiring a squire(child labour) and maintaining a healthy horse.
I understand your frustration after reading that post. I'm not sure what advice I could give (you could just as easily swap men for women in your post). We all have to do it but I would suggest being as honest as you can from the outset. I think a huge problem with this site is a lack of honesty and respect. If you aren't honest from whomever you are dating I think you're wasting their time. I understand why you lied of course, it was just a thought. Keep looking and chin up!
Women and men can do what they want, doesn't make those things right of course. There are better sites if you want to do that sort of thing, it'll make it that much easier for the rest of us to find genuine people.
I would take everybody online with a pinch of salt. Not becasue I've been hurt before, but because it's just common sense(not so common nowadays huh?).
Men lie and women lie. You're only seeing it from one side so try not to lump us all together as liars. We all have to wade through morons online , not just women.
Ah this is great it really is. It's not really suitable for blogs, being a statement not a topic. Although I could draw topics from it. But it does show this stuff can work sometimes and make you happy. Um, yeah!
Well I've had far worse dates to be honest. It's all relative though. I would spend longer chatting to her online maybe, you can never be sure, but it's a good idea.
I'm more inclined to give people second chances though, but I'm a hopeful romantic.
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RE: Someone that you like
But it's a dating site, you're supposed to message people you like. Just go for it!