P.S. Please stop trying to contact me all the time, and trying to keep me from moving on. I hope someone other than me will find out what you're really like someday. . .and I mean that in several ways. I am happiest without and away from you. There is truly no love or friendship left. Bye bye.
non, I'm afraid I must agree with whatever molly says; totally agree with all of it.
pat, come on man, that was a non-dog. I was just trying to save it from axes being thrown about. I think it has its own now and you'd better call it Mister.
I think I'm going to make it a point to philosophize every morning now
I would chop it up and wear its "skin," thereby probably greatly increasing my odds of being rescued by some sailors who might fancy me a mermaid. Upon boarding I would de-mermaid, attack the cabin boy and make him wear it, in case any of the sailors happen to fall in love.
I may in fact do the opposite and unenlighten someone. I had in fact met someone online, but I was not looking for romance or even anyone. I thought it had turned out well. Thank you; now I have $0.49.
In fact I was brutally honest about myself and so was she, but in the end she did seem to enjoy having an online presence that consisted of some of the things you mention. And I'm jealous (but so was she.) I don't know.
I don't have any real friends, I think. Never seemed to want or need them. It is nice if you and the one you love are in love and best friends, though.
Just guessing. . .sounds like maybe he was mad, mostly at you, for not being what he thought you should. Also at himself, though he probably doesn't admit it to himself. "Sharing" with you was like a form of revenge and saving face.
Hi Track. Don't know you, but from some of your comments you seem like a good guy. Nothing wrong with being down. . .especially if it's grief. I've seen people get messed up not allowing themselves to feel it. A sense of humor is one of the best things you can have in this life, and you got that.
lindsy, I'm not sure if your question is more a statement that you are willing to help people if you can, or that it is a question and you're assuming something is wrong. It also would assume everyone here is an earthling, or if it is not then you are only asking them. I'm not sure in any case that everyone is.
molly, thank you! Isn't it possible that the process of finding yourself never ends, though? How can it be complete, or one know when one's done? Maybe there is more to find in each relationship.
Please know that I am not criticizing your belief at all, only offering a different possible view. I do agree with your what you say about not expecting a relationship to give them that, though.
freehand, thank you! you're welcome too!
daniela, thank you for the good news about this being a mad house!
UsernameTaken, you stole my name. :| But cheers anyway!
Angelpepper, at least you didn't steal someone else's name. You just borrowed what they said. Nevertheless, thank you for making them nice words!
lindsy, thank you for your welcome to both CS and its blogs! I like that expression very much, that no man is an island. I will say more about that in a moment. As for finding a relationship here, I don't know that I'm doing that right now. Takes time.
I believe no man or woman can say anything about themselves that's not a relationship to someone or something. I disagree with the whole (what I think is usual) notion of "finding yourself." It's not something you do in the sense you can be done. It's a way of life, and to believe you're done is to narrow and filter everything you come into contact with. Just my opinion.
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