Pink...be your authentic true self, and someone of worth and value will see that. Don't worry about the superficial ones who you think pass you over. If you are smiling and happy with yourself, others will see that. I know that may sound cliche, but I really mean that as truth. These websites can be unforgiving in the sense that many many will never see the true person who you really are, no matter how hard you try. The other thing is just keep changing photos, and things in your profile to catch the attention of one really worth knowing you...Peace..God bless...
Thank you Holly. Well i don't have to worry about the expense of moving things..cos where i am located now..the govt will move them there if i do this prior to going back to U.S...But, I will take your advice on writing the letters.. Thank you for replying.
Hi Heather. Ahhhh the Irish witt...That must be thing that keeps you sane in all of that you described. Well..I formerly lived near Seattle WA, and know about rain, mist, and humidity. I am concerned about the health care and education you described. It sounds as if you don't like living in your own country? Well, you were very candid and humorous in your recount.. I will consider all of these things in our decision. It is sad really...we soooo wanted to do this. Everyone think the U.S. is always the place to be. I have lived in south korea for almost a year, and there are other parts of the world out of the "rat race" that suit me just fine. I do not want to return and live my whole life in America, and I am not Unamerican...just my own person with my own ideals wanting to leave the fast paced ridiculous pursuit for "only" the almighty dollar. I hope things get better for you in Ireland.
Thank you LadyinDublin...good idea. How is it in Dublin?
Celibate..wow I did not know that about NZ..alot of ppl i know say they want to go there.
Itchy...I appreciate your honesty. It is sad to know that is how u feel in your own country. U know there are many who think your country is so beautiful and hear many great things about how friendly and talkative it's inhabitants are....including my daughter and I..
Thank you very much for your words of warning. I am quite discouraged now. My daughter and I wanted so much to enter your country as we think it very beautiful, and had a lot to offer that we wanted. But, I appreciate your comment. Thank you.
I am adopted, but know I have irish ancestry, and have wanted to live there for a long time..Drawn to it, I guess. However, I have been searching for months on the internet trying to find other EU countries to get into..So, is why I asked if Ireland is not a good choice right now. Hadn't heard it was expensive there. Any advice you would have, I would welcome. Thank you.
well u have to admit..it is a pretty uncanny coincidence.. But, I believe the horrible things that have happened on that day are not authored by God, but the enemy of our souls. Therefore, that enemy likes to get attention, and want's attention drawn to this fact of the 26th. Therefore, I will continue to pray for the ppl of this country. Look to God, and draw help from Him..He is listening and will help, and so will ppl who love Him..help your country.
Swan, try not to be anxious as it can make your mind always go to the worst case scenerio. I have been there with that, and I can tell you that a peace of mind and heart will do wonders as you go thru this. I will pray that all goes well, and the right solution for the problem you are having internally with your stomach is resolved! God bless
Giovy...pay no attention to the men nowadays who have such a problem answering a direct question. I know I am a woman, and not the feedback you wanted. However, I just wanted to give you a vote of encouragement. Men can perceive wrongly when a woman gets bold and direct. For the life of me, I will never understand why they do. So, you go girl , just be you...The right man will get; ignore the rest
Ok..whatever Ben...I tried to explain, but you are continuing in your way...So..if I am a Christian..I speak from that..my faith.
Venus..I am not going to lie and say that I am not still legally married. I have stated more than a few times on my profile that I am leaving said marriage and starting over. That is the truth. I would rather be upfront, than have to backpedal to explain later. I am stating that I will be moving from S. Korea (which is my current location) in a year..What is hard to understand about that? I am living in a foreign country, so that is when i will have things settled to make the move. I do not think a soulmate is something you find overnight. I am just putting out there what I am desiring, and how this site has made me feel. Things will take time, i know that. This process I am in now has been happening for a while, and I am in a place inside of my mind and heart to know exactly what I need and what I want. Thanks for the comment.
ALL of you ...thank you for the encouraging words. You all have something to add that is beneficial. I know ppl have fun on here and it is easy to navigate. But, as I stated..I want more than the blogs and the forums (not diminishing there worth at all-cos I am on one now... ). And, I certainly understand that men are hard to trust now. And, it is not the same as looking into someone's eyes. But, I want to get to know someone at a much deeper level, and they me. A place where a real foundation can begin. And...definately I will not settle.
Thank you all for responding...
(and bible belt?...Dude I just speak from my heart and my belief'which happens to be in God'...I am going to be true to myself..if you don't buy it or it stifles you..then i guess you can move onto where you are not stifled...Peace is that better? )
Alex...wow...did you get that all out in one breath?! It might help if ya got to know Jamil a bit...and you may understand a bit more where he is comming from. English is not his first language, but he sees many injustices based on a "class system" where he is located. I believe that fuels alot of what he blogs about. When you have that around you, it seems that you think other parts of the world will behave differently. Maybe on CS he is learning we all can behave the same as what he sees in his own backyard...
Correct me if a I am wrong Jamil. That is my take on it from what you have expressed.
No firestorm here. I appreciate your blog and thoughts of reflection and truth. You just spoke to me about things I have been asking Him about. Reminding me once again to..SEEK Him not just for answers...but put aside MY thoughts and ways...and just seek Him for who He really is and what He really is to me. Then He will make everything alright, just as you said. Well put. Thank you for sharing!
PPl don't trust anymore Jamil. Is too hard to believe someone, no matter how much we may want to. Ppl would have to meet and communicate in other ways off of this venue to prove themselves trustworthy, and then for many that would still be not enough. It is a different world now. And, those that are truly honest will have to weed thru much dishonesty to find a truthful one...But, it is still possible, somehow.
I think you have described America..period. American women are experiencing similar with American men. Most are grown up little boys who are always seeking for the next best thing in a skirt...And, that is one reason I perfer not to be with American men. So I understand your woes, but American ppl need to wake up and stop being so selfish and pampered for the most part. This does not describe everyone, but it does describe society as a whole. I came to S. Korea, and found not the same huge a selection of "goods" available to me as in U.S. But, you know what?...I don't mind. It is better that way. Less confusion and less focusing on material things. Tho shopping in Asia is pretty awesome...But, I think we American's are a pampered society. And, that is why you may feel as you do about some American women, and I feel as I do about some American men.
Hi Jamil..I don't know if you came up with that or if you read it somewhere, but I agree 100%. If you go about your life striving to live for that kind of excellence in what matters most, you can't go wrong If anyone does not understand the nature of this comment, then they need ... no one should really try to pick apart your motivation behind...it is still true..nonetheless.
I love what ShellOne had to say...And, we have to be attracted to the outer. But, having said that, it should only be a gateway to the internal soul of that person. That is where true chemistry lies.
By the way....Great profile. Loved all you had to say!
I am a little confused Sterilize what? The needles? Needles that attach to a syringe are individually packaged and pre sterilized...including IV needles and catheters..So..what is the point here?
One thing I do agree with...is that they are still humans..
RE: iam looking for my soul mate
Give him a break...this man may be sincere. You can't let a few bad apples (ok .. more than a few)..spoil the whole barrel.