calm. you appear more reasonable but you said 'you guess sometimes new people dont know we like to have a little fun'. so if you believe this, take it easy on the new people who want to do blogs. by all means, have your fun but not at others expense. this is not nice. there are people out their who use this site mainly to find a partner and im one of them. im not one for looking at the blogs and my experience so far hasnt been fun. i believe there are people who use this site just for the blogs but they have to understand some dont.
you do have a point. however, i dont believe they are weird, just troubled and lost souls. i dont believe just on this site either, i believe when you get to a certain age and life doesnt pan out the way we are conditioned to believe (grow up, get an education, meet a wonderful partner, get married, have 2.4 kids and live happy ever after) we become very disillusioned in life and bitter. life keeps beating us down until evenually we either give up, get even or realise we really dont need a partner to be happy. a partner should enhance your life and happiness, not be in control of it. by putting all your hopes on a partner to make you happy, you are giving power to others. the power is in your own hands. i do realise all what i say is easy said and done but i do assure you, eventually we all wake up. like they say you have to reach rock bottom and start taking responsibility for our own lifes. so dalkgirl, dont let anyone tell you, you are wrong. trust your own experience, instincts and knowledge of life, you are right, on the whole there are a lot of messed up people out there which does make them behave like weirdos. just have faith that it is not you and let the weirdoes pass you by. good luck dear.
i used to be like you, i trusted everyone until they gave me reason not to trust. my brother-in-law called me naive for so long. i told him i cant live life like that, not trusting anyone. however, he was extreme re trust. i now find he is mostly right. you have to be discerning. i keep my eyes wide open now. i dont look for inconsistencies, if a person is dishonest in any way, eventually it will come out. unfortunately, people can hide who they really are and what their motives are for a very, very long time. also we can delude ourselves also, when we know something is not adding up because we dont want to be right.
it took me a long time to learn this lesson and im much happier for it. good luck.
ive heard that everything is a reflection of you, a mirror and your higher power is trying to get you to look at your own anger that may be shoved down deep inside you. there have been times where nearly everyone i came into contact with were hostile but at the time i was very bitter about life. now is a different story as im going through an issue of trust and, therefore, im attracting people who are either untrustworthy or wary. however, thats my experience of life but maybe, its worth looking at. good luck
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RE: Weirdos
calm. you appear more reasonable but you said 'you guess sometimes new people dont know we like to have a little fun'. so if you believe this, take it easy on the new people who want to do blogs. by all means, have your fun but not at others expense. this is not nice. there are people out their who use this site mainly to find a partner and im one of them. im not one for looking at the blogs and my experience so far hasnt been fun. i believe there are people who use this site just for the blogs but they have to understand some dont.