i don't date so i cant really say much on that level.....however im the kinda person who is open ...........even if i go out with friends i would almost offer to pay the most of the tab or pick up the entire tab i don't have a problem with that so i would think if i do date i would have no problems at all to go dutch or even take care of the tab myself.............
im so sorry to hear that ..............i too have a 21 yr old son and i cant imagine what it would be like to lose him (god forbid). i do wish you strength in the the future
hi, i have been here for about a month as well, haven't met anyone but made a couple of friends and i must say im enjoying the forums so much so thats all i come here for now....its fun..........so don't rush.....take part in the forums .........be warned though you may be ignored for a bit but don't be deterred by that you will be fine eventually.........Goodluck
hi, i have been here for about a month as well, haven't met anyone but made a couple of friends and i must say im enjoying the forums so much so thats all i come here for now....its fun..........so don't rush.....take part in the forums .........be warned though you may be ignored for a bit but don't be deterred by that you will be fine eventually.........Goodluck
crying does help but remember when you miss someone that you really love its only the physical part is not there .....that person will always be in your heart. Try to remember something joyful, funny and let your heart smile.
great movie, watched it 2 times and enjoyed both times. being a mom of three girls i often wonder what life will be for me in a few years when they are all teenagers and the drama starts
You have to do the work after this experience, make yourself open and free to be able to give and receive love again. Clear your decks, get rid of the baggage, rinse off your heart and give is permission to have a fresh start. To hope like you never have before. To love like you have never been hurt. We all get to decide our emotional destiny by adjusting our responses to what we have experienced in the past. Get real real get honest about where you have been and how you feel. Confess, repent if you have to but come clean and be honest to yourself. Hand over all you are harboring to God and allow him to wash you with all the tears you have cried. Then dare to start over again. Do the work relationally and take time to listen to your heart because, if you don't do the work now you may have to do it later and the labor might be more intensive because it will involve another person. Practice the regiment to true love, kindness. patience, honesty, bearing all things, and hoping for even better. Treat people like you would like to be treated. I truly believe in KARMA, its alive and well and all that we do in this world comes right back to us its just a matter of time. Don't allow yourself to be pushed over the edge by fear, anger or even passion, these are all filters that usually screen the wisdom from presenting the side of argument for the war for our minds. Life and all its various changes and seasons has a way of birthing maturity, strength and grace in us if we let it. Use your pain to mold you into a stronger person and the trying of your faith to create patience in you.
I wish you all the best and remember no one is more important to you than you.
This brought a tear, im going through some personal life changes right now and your poem is so true to the point. Really wonderful !! If we can conquer the two very powerful emotions of forgiveness and anger we all can have so much love and contentment and relative happiness in our lives.
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RE: Should women pay half? (aka "going dutch")
i don't date so i cant really say much on that level.....however im the kinda person who is open ...........even if i go out with friends i would almost offer to pay the most of the tab or pick up the entire tab i don't have a problem with that so i would think if i do date i would have no problems at all to go dutch or even take care of the tab myself.............