sultryash Blog Comments (48)

RE: It's Over

Christmas, I am sorry to hear you are going through this, nut like one poster said. If a silly thing like that could cause him to take such drastic measures then obviously your friendship/relationship, didnt mean much to him.
Relationship ought to be about , loving and caring and sharing and taking care of each other hearts, there must be lots of compromising and forgiving for it to worth from both parties.

But, my woman's intuition is telling me he was looking for a way out, if I am wrong, then I guess he has serious insecurities and trust issues and you dont need to blame yourself or even try to rationalize his behavior.

I hope you feel better about this soon

RE: It FINALLY happened !

RE: desperately seeking musical female whocan sing blu

Hey Dave ! Cant sing to save my life but enjoyed your video nice voice !

Goodluck

RE: In memory of mom

Awesome Jim !! You must have made her proud.

RE: be careful and live without fear

Inspirational .............thanks for sharing !

RE: upset and going to continue his work

I am saddened to hear of your loss, life is so fragile , I hope everything goes well for his family and friends in this time of such sadness and know that you and all of yours are in my prayers.

Take care

RE: ~USED VS LOVED~

Very sad story.

My daughter lost her dancing shoes ...a new pair i bought her only recently. Today she told me about it and started crying when she told me because she was afraid i would be mad with her. I told her it was just a pair of shoes and we can buy another pair so i reached over to hug her, as i put my arms around her shoulders she was shaking like a leaf. I asked her what happened ? She said she was so afraid i would be angry with her for being careless and it scared her. I felt really bad .

RE: Taking life for granted

I do randomly sent a flower or sometimes if i find any inspirational literature online i may just forward it to a few people and share the knowledge. or fun ..whatever the message is

good blog

RE: GIVING THIS SITE ONE MORE WEEK THEN I DELETE MY PR

Kizzi ..i agree.........Its a good way to getting to know each other and i would think quite a safe way as well until both parties feel safe and comfortable enough to meet in person.

RE: My Angels Looking Down On Me.

Our love ones ever leave us Somechick, physical yes but in spirit they live on. Remember them and know that nothing not even death can take away that love and the memories yo made with them.

I Still Know Who She Is

"Be Great and Grateful "

RE: need an answer so badly

When trust is broken in a relationship that relationship cannot work, in some cases it takes alot of effort and understanding and LOVE to be able to forgave, forget and move on . However, not everyone is capable. It is best that she moves on, i agree with her for coming clean, its hard to live a lie, there is a saying" speak the truth and cause it what it will" she must have given thought to that before she told him. He is hurting, but from what you said, he too isn't any sweet bread...he has his share of indiscretions too, and all he can focus on is his pain, not fair but that's the world we live in and we are humans. My thing is, its better for her to move on...put some time and space between the two of them, it makes no sense .........she may only end up having to always seek his forgiveness, an d eventually she may end up resenting him.
It could very well into a perpetual thing year after year and that not healthy for her or her kids.
I do hope that when the dust settles one of them has the maturity to make the welfare of their kids more important in the end.

Take care and i hope it work out for ll of you.

P.S. it may be wise for you to take an objective stance on this if you can. she being your sister my cloud your judgment ......she needs and he needs someone to take a neutral stance and tell both of them without bias feelings what they need to do....JMO

RE: love

Kasih ...Not because someone doesn't say the "L" word means that they don't love you ...but i have to disagree with you .....unrequited love is a very painful thing to deal with.

My thing is ......no matter how much i may love someone if that person don't feel the same then i rather they not say at all ......

RE: Is he dumping me?

Dont be pushed into making a hasty decision......he'll wait if the relationship really means something to him. don't let it get you down though.....All the best

RE: REDS! A poem for those who lost out on love

nice poem !!!

RE: OK, I admit it. I was wrong.

Great story Jim !! i am with you all the way i hate littering and i cant stand it when i see people doing it...Good Job !!!!

RE: OK, I admit it. I was wrong.

Great story Jim !! i am with you all the way i hate littering and i cant stand it when i see people doing it...Good Job !!!!

RE: Law of Attraction in Dating

i do believe part of your statement but i also believe that opposites attract as well.

RE: Why does "no" have such devastating impact?

Learning to say no to what is not a top priority and yes to only to the requests that fit my personal mission statement, has been one of the best skills i have learned.

RE: THE NEW ME! :)

Congrats and all the best !!! Life is what we make it ! keep going forward.

RE: thoughts on Socrates work..

"Hope" is the thing with feathers. that perches in the soul,and sings the tune without the words and never stops at all.

Thats all we can do, change ourselves and "hope" for a better tomorrow !

RE: I think I can... I know I can.

Congratulations to you both !!! Wishing you and your love, a life full of bliss, laughter and the strength to make it happen along the way. All the best again !

RE: CS past 60 hours: Tell me about yourself!

Hi Stephanie !

I joined CS in February 09 and would occasionally just look in and browse a little, Get my feet in the door so to speak, spent about three months just reading the blogs and following the forums and discussions, until sometime in June then i really got into posting and participating . Since then to now i must say CS stands out from any other dating site that i know of so far. It has been a fun place for me, as i am a homebody and a single mother who do not date (by choice) and a full time job i really dont get the time to go anywhere unless im traveling. CS has provided an outlet of relaxation for me, along the way i have made a few good friends and have been enjoying some really good banter ....all full of love, respect and lots of laughter . I am glad you are having a great time too, and its really good to have another vibrant intelligent mind added to this coholopot of bright, funny,caring wonderful men and women that make our days a little easier even its virtually. Take care !

RE: Impressions CS The First 24 hours

Hey Stephanie ! Welcome to CS ! Hope you enjoy it around here

RE: finally...we did it!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

RE: Today is My Birthday!!

Happy Birthday Moonlove !!!!

RE: This touched me. It is very bittersweet. Enjoy.

Beautiful story Thank you !! We often dont stop to think what a few kinds words, i kind gesture or a simple smile can do for someone. each and every one of us has a story !

RE: Simply Wonderful !!!

Jim...thank you !! i watched this video sometime back and i cried .......its truly amazing and we with all of our limbs and faculties can sometimes take life for granted. Its often underestimated the power of the human mind !!..Thanks for post this .

RE: ... the eyes of a child...

nature...............the beauty that beholds us

RE: ... the eyes of a child...

if only we could pay attention ..........life is so full of wonderful moments............simply things