Is he dumping me?

i say trust your gut. if he is too pushy, he may not be the right one for you..

dont worry.......wait for time to pass.....and things settle to understand whats going on.......a person who cant wait cant become ur life partner.....try for other one

hi but u are good one so have a fun there it's better but I am still in search of that special one

I have always found the gut feeling to be quite true. Specially women have an uncanny ability of intuition that makes them feel certain things that are not there in the open.

Having said that, my suggestion would be to bring more clarity to the situatuon. You tell him how you feel and how hurting is the change in attitude has been.

Also, be courageous enough to ask him if he wants to break-up. Cos it's better to know early than to smoulder with the fear of the unpleasent unknown till you get that facts that u can get now.

Is this the same person you wrote about before ? The advice then was that you need to make things happen - like getting to the 'next stage' - and you gave the impression you thought that was correct.
If you dont make things happen, what do you expect ? There's probably nothing wrong with a cyber, emailing relationship which lasts for years but its not what everyone is looking for.

Waiting and going slow is fine. IF both people want that. Allow him to change his mind if that is what he wants to do.

I put myself on hold. I think I need that time alone. Not everyone wants to wait.

perhaps you could have asked him clearly. As in "do you want to continue or leave?"

be straight in asking without any hesitation

Hmmm???..Is it a tech error or the response is needed to be repeated for Mr. Max? :) I hope it’s the former. just paid attention to some petty stuff :)

Sometimes people get bored, when things are getting stagnated. That’s the reality of anything in life. When the initial wonder of meeting a completely new person slowly wears out, both parties have a responsibility to keep the flame going, be it a romantic or platonic friendship. Both parties should feel the need for keeping in touch and may be taking a further step by opening up and sharing more serious and personal issues.

Having said that, yes, you have to be very careful that you make the correct move with the correct person. I think it’s an art to be in touch with people who you can’t meet daily, without getting weary over the whole idea of being friends.

However, I hope you will find your answers soon and save yourself from being hurt.

melody

ya it can be difficult i find that its one thing to meet on here but to try and build a strong foundation its difficult and if he was in a rush you were right to not rush it takes time you have to find out who each other are just because some one write that they are kind sweet nice ect doesn't necessarily mean that they are a good person you have to make your own judgment and just hope that the one you correspond with is an honest person have you ever seen online video by brad paisley well i think that there's a lot of that happening and for the women that are just browsing photos a lot of you if not every one you may find a handsome man but you aint gonna get the whole package it just doesn't work like that ,,,,so anyways i wouldn't let this guy get to you about being dumped he obviously aint worth your time xoxo cody calgary ab

Kasih,

Take it from someone who's been in a similar situation....RUN...RUN and don't look back. I gave the persons the chance to explain and accepted the explaination. It took 3-4 weeks and I was in the same situation all over again. Just remember...there are lots of fish in the sea!

Rez

you should ask him; some people can't deal with distance so there is nothing wrong with that; you are not being victimized; it may just mean you are not compatible. for someone that wants to go very slow, long distance relationships never end well. Date people close to you so there will be no problems. good luck.

p.s. have you ever met even? if you haven't how can he dump you? you aren't even together.

If you keep on thinking that "he dumped me - I cannot go on" take heart from the fact that loads of people have been through this and life goes on. You still have your life to live and there will be lots of opportunities for you to find your soul mate.

You are probably thinking that because "he dumped me " that it is going to take you a long time to get over this. Also your self confidence is at an all time low ebb and you probably view the future with doom and gloom and are afraid that you will never fall in love again.

Nothing I will say will take away the pain and the fear. Let us look at it this way - a chapter in your life story has just ended (not happily) but it is time to move on because it's your life, nobody else's.

Look around you - you have all your friends and family who love you. Maybe you neglected them a bit while you were with your ex - this often happens. You can dedicate time to getting back with them and they will comfort you and help you to take your mind off things.

When you start to tell them that "he dumped me" you will be surprised at how many people have been through this and you begin to realize that you are not the only one. You will also see that many people have recovered, moved on and live satisfying lives in happy relationships.

Time to start afresh with new interests and hobbies - sometimes these are abandoned during a romantic relationship. Now you can start getting involved in these things that you were once keen and passionate about.

Try not to dwell on the fact that just because " he dumped me" you feel very small and lack confidence. It's a big blow but it is time to invest in your interests and in yourself above all. You are number one now so you have to look after yourself.

Joining a group or language class because you want to travel will help you to meet lots of new people and you can start socialising and dating again. There are loads of activities and groups out there - you just have to choose one that you are passionate about.

As you start facing the world and taking an active part in it again, the hurt and pain will start to fade and also you can meet new interesting people, maybe even a soulmate. You will start dating again and you will stop thinking "he dumped me" so much.

Dont be pushed into making a hasty decision......he'll wait if the relationship really means something to him. don't let it get you down though.....All the best