My ex Bf wanted to become brothers with my Bf

Guys i need some suggestion here , anyone familiar with the church marriage annulation process ?
My bf once married in the catholic church in the US , but the plan i have in mind was for us to be married in the catholic church here in Indonesia. On July , next year i am suppose to make us an appointment with the people that can help with the bureaucracy and he is ready to bring related documents and sign any necessary papers ( yes it seems like we are a bit rushing on things but our age is not actually young anymore, for me i have no time to waste ) But so far the church giving me a cold shoulder
Where should we apply the annulation ? will it be easier if its done there in the US ? anyone familiar with this ?

Second , my bf actually use to be my ex bf's friend. I know them both online for 5 years now, and i didnt actually say good bye with my ex bf ( which i havent even met yet Lmao ) because it is my bf that tells me that my ex is involved with another woman. But everything was fine , my ex didnt do any of his act until my bf posted something on my page at another social media site. And from that day until today my ex is mailing my bf back and forth ( but my ex never mail me ) telling my bf the plan i had with him which i didnt say anything about ( Lols ) about our story , and the best part was my ex is asking my bf to become his brother ..

My bf is a bit of a sentimental person and my ex said to him that he needs him that he never had a real brother that he is fragille and dont know what to do, he loose his way so many times, that he is stuck with his life , that he is broke ( get a job will ya!!! ) .. and so on ( duh , sounds like a girl to me ) and this kindda things really makes my bf to consider being there for my ex.

I mean funny right, I use to think that no internet interaction can be complicated or real but now i witness that it can be as real as it needed to be and as complicated ( even more ) as real relationship can get. For me will i made it all the way in my new relationship that i really dont know but its not like i dont have a life. So i will do my best but i leave the rest to The Bigger Force to decide.

Im only affraid that my ex is playing another one of his game . I never talk to my ex again, i didnt reply his emails, never did i say goodbye. I dont feel there is a reason to do so. If he didnt cheat i would prepare to do anything necessary for us, but now its a complete different situation. I dont even think my ex existed anymore.

So i wonder is my ex trying to arouse my reaction or is he trying to destroy my new relationship or the last possibility which i doubt but its possible that he is really reaching out for help ( which this possibility kindda make me feel bad ) ..

Any advise and suggestions would be deeply appreciated . Sometime we do need outside opinion because they can see things clearer.






Lots of love