Political argument? Im a girl, let me win.. LOL
My bf is an old friend , i been talking and know him from internet for like 4 yrs , i finally give a shot his proposal of being more than friends when he heard that im single. Its a very easy and smooth between us because we are at least familiar with each other.But recently ( and its pretty much why im blogging here, duh
) we kind of have a different political opinion, then, as a woman 
i defend my opinion.3 days of back and forth quarrels ( which i really dont think its necessary
i mean its politic he should have just let me win, its not that we are discussing about having a child or sharing a bank account ) i push and he push and voila ..We are firing missiles at each others pretty much like war.
This is terrible, i mean its f*ck*n politic why cant he just drop it ?
He is not aiming at me but he challenge me on an open debat with his friends
He is a nice guy, the sweetest thing , couldn't even hurt a fly ..
But this
What do you think CS ers ? Should he let me win ???
I mean i'm a woman, and this is where he should have said
" yes dear, wonderful, perfect .. "
But he didn't
I'm not proud with the way i reacted ,i think i went too far ( im a woman and i can just say im having a pms and you brought this up in a wrong time , etc etc as an excuse and get away ) , but my ego is too proud to ask for a truce
He should have just let me win the argument....
and why wouldn't he, anyway ..Seriously, i'm thinking for a truce , he stop all this bullsh*t , i will stop, but he just wont stop
He think he is educating me , but instead he give me a bl**dy headache
I mean, this argument is not even necessary , but how to say that don't push me into a political debate. I'm entitled for my opinion and so is he, but truth is this is the part where i expected him to just let me win so that things will get back to the way it is
so this couple of days i dont feel like doing anything .. hhhhhh
Comments (34)
the more things change the more they stay the same.
Just because you are a women should not mean he backs away from his own opinion either.
You could say to him,
"lets agree to disagree"
that would solve problems, dont you think?
if he or you can not walk away from a difference of an opinion, i am afraid that i have to agree with garytee
No good can come of a relationship where neither will accept the others opinion, and you know i speak from experience.
by the way, good to see you again. it has been a while.
If this man is a good man, dont let him slip through your fingers.
You deserve happiness, hope you have found it.
Stay in touch ok.
forget abt WOWO and WIWI yaa....
"I'm not proud with the way i reacted ,i think i went too far"
Yes, setting fire to his house was a liiiittle extreme in my opinion.
Gosh forbid that you are arguing over the Gaza thing, as neither side has pure correctness.
Matter of fact that is true of most political arguments.
There is always a weakness in both sides of a political debate, so the advice Simmo gave is actually good advice. Agree to disagree, then move on to a new topic with the BF.
I dont know the whole situation you write of here, but as for me, I would just "let the pretty lady win." What the heck, it's only words and discussions, that between the two of you won't change the ways of the world anyways, but letting it go and just moving onto another subject, maybe something you do agree on and enjoying life together, I think is better.
So, I say appreciate each other, and besides, look at the prize you're both getting! EACH OTHER! Yeah!
I wish you the best today and everyday.
Long time no see.
No, he should not let you win nor must you let him win. It solves nothing. If it is an important issue one of you should change your view PERMANENTLY or if it is not important just forget about it. Politics should not be allowed spoil a relationship.
Long time, no! Seek. > hehee...
Anywho!
I do agree with Bob......
PS; Just because you is a lady! Doesn't mean that you are right. ...
I already know, that! You is going to call me.
How do you want to be treated? Like a child, who he lets graciously win like playing scrabble or an adult he sees as an equal?
Why do you expect him to treat you differently than you treat him?
But seriously how u know, twas not in the other site, althou its on his wall
Sometimes something underlying can flare up in any given situation and no one wants to step down.
Sometimes I wonder why I bother with someone in my life, but sometimes it is simply very obvious why.