BriteSpark Blog Comments (46)

RE: I'm so in love with you

This is soooooooo cute! Love it!

CAT MEN…NEW MEN?

JN, I guess I set myself up for that! You'd think at this age I'd know better. You guys are bad!

RE: men who do not want nor have kids

Hi LVC

I have never had kids. If that's the response you get as a man, can you imagine the response a woman gets, being the natural bearer of children?

Pitying looks, incredulity, surprise, embarrassment. Even children here in Spain have quizzed me! You can practically see the wheels turning in peoples' heads, trying to figure out why. I never venture any explanations even though at times, they are silently willing you to explain, just to be able to put a label on your situation.

And don't mention the family! After all these years, you would think by now that they would have taken a hint. But I'm sure they'll still be asking when I'm 80!!!

At first I thought I was in a minority, but if you check dating websites, you will see that a substantial number of women have never had kids, or don't want them. I myself know several who don't, for whatever reason.

According to the statistics, one in six women suffers from Tokophobia, a fear of childbirth. Check the internet, there are literally thousands of articles and websites on this subject.

RE: A good day

Wise move learning self-defence. Wish I'd done it myself.

Go easy on the cadets.

What's the chance of my learning this 6 and 3 step? And the windmill sounds like fun! Does it involve balancing on one hand whilst waving your legs in the air?

RE: mountains of intlects

¿¿¿¿¿¿Eh??????? I guess it makes a change from looking for beautiful, white girl!!

If you're happy, that's all that counts.

RE: IS MY PROFILE STILL ACTIVE?????

Yep, your profile is visible. Would have attempted to IM you but I don't think that's quite what you meant?

Maybe after this blog you'll have more hits.

Good luck!

RE: lol... Just hilarious.... :@)

Stev

You're darn right about the blogs being hilarious. Otherwise why would I still be up at 4.30am, laughing my head off.

I guess I'd better call it a day/night. Goodnight!

Online or not online...

Don't worry, I do the same. Go off and take a shower, have something to eat, make a few phone calls, take a nap.

It's just sometimes when I'm in a hurry and I've been chatting or emailing and I tell the person that I have to go, but it looks like I'm still online. It's good to know it's a general thing.

RE: Date this person?

So there's some truth in the adage "treat 'em mean to keep 'em keen'. Must try that one!

In my culture we have juju. Some people believe in it and claim you can cast powerful spells, and other things like you've described. Fear, beer stories and superstition can make you believe anything. If you believe someone can do you harm, your mind will take you in that direction and you'll be more susceptible to control.

And no, I would not consciously date someone who was trying to harm other people, whether they succeeded or not. And if I found out afterwards that they were into this kind of stuff, in a flash I would whip out my own chicken heads, dolls and pins!!

RE: I want ... Somebody

Rather cheesy. Not one of their best or most popular songs and the first time I've heard it. I saw them in London in the 80s when they were at the height of their career. They had some fantastic hits, but live, they were not very charismatic. I fell asleep despite the noise!...

Online or not online...

OK, thanks DL. It doesn't bother me too much, as long as people don't think I'm being rude, or telling lies when I say I'm signing out!

RE: I hate men!

¡Controversial!

Maybe there's a reason he's been unable to contact you.

Win some, lose some. Sometimes I think there are a lot of people on here just to pass the time for want of something better to do: seeing how far they can get; or maybe they just haven't found "the one" and they have the option to flit from person to person, always hoping for someone better. Who really knows?

The men claim the women are playing games. The women claim the men are playing games. Maybe a lot of people are playing games, or are just plain scared when it comes to the crunch.

Don't take it too seriously, keep positive and you may be surprised one day.

Good luck!

RE: New..

Welcome Ladiii

Yes, this is a great site with lots of diversity. It would be well worth the money if we had to pay.

The games are great fun and the blogs are hilarious, as are some of the members. You'll meet lots of new people and I hope you find that special one.

WORD OF WARNING: If you want any sleep, don't logon just before bedtime.

RE: can a man smile make a lady blush

No, a smile wouldn't make me blush. But then I don't blush easily, if at all. I guess if a girl was shy and she was attracted to a guy, she might blush...or if the guy was doing something suggestive with his tongue.

But it's always nice to see a warm smile.

RE: Bored, what are you doing to night?

Going through the blogs and having a good laugh. That should tire you out!!

RE: If you had the chance to date me tonight what will

Girl, I can't wait to see the responses on this. Good job you said to be respectful. Come on guys, there must be someone with some original, bright ideas! I can think of a few...but I'm not a guy!