If two persons are totally in love than the following will almost most certainly NOT apply.....but there are always exceptions....
Young men as they mature, have an attraction for older women, because younger women haven't matured into what they will become as they approach 40 and beyond....and conquering an older woman gives a younger man a sense of maturity within himself.... Men however, have physical needs that depend largely on physical attraction...and as that older woman ages, she loses her edge...unless she has other factors in her favor... such as independent wealth....(both genders, male and female, have individuals who will gladly succome to a carefree lifestyle, and security with which wealth brings.....)
Men, as they age and gain maturity, aquire wisdom in understanding themselves..and women.....which could cause them to stray back into youthful grounds, where their aquired knowledge gives them the confidence to seek out and maintain a hot youthful woman.... Everything has risks..and time slips away... an older woman has to evaluate those risks vs. time taking its toll on her vs. whatever else that would entice a young man to stay around as she ages.....
Mr. Rapowal, if you truly feel that way then you should go to your wife and tell her what you have been up to with the fine widow. What are you talking about? You think confessing your secrets on this site is going to make you well? Right living makes one well.
That phrase that you used is about shame and how that shame creates dis-ease. It is not about what you are doing. You can live any way you please, but please don't try to con us with your bs.
We have shared interesting comments together.... and I appreciate your support, in lieu of viewpoints made to which we did not agree...I realize now I was lacking foresight.... I have made a miriad of adjustments regarding those viewpoints, though I did not follow all the advice... I was hoping the sun would come back out after the clouds had disipated the view...with a new understanding of those respective differences.... Should I still follow the precautionary recipe you gave me that you wanted me to use for ridding the house of pests? or continue the passive approach to letting them die of their own accord?
I love the sunshine.... its better than clouds....
Defer to the eve2eve60 blog entitled "I Give Up".... your perception of what she is saying, and response to her, should more than adequately point out why you are still single.... Your reasoning is on a differant planet..... she is quite clear in what she is saying, and somehow you come up with a rational that is even beyond my scope of understanding... and I am VERY abstact in my reasoning....
The Senate Hearings investigating the Sinking of the Titanic:
2nd Officer Lightoller on the stand......
On being questioned by the senate committee investigating the causes to the the sinking of the Titanic, 2nd officer Lightoller was asked a rather demeaning question by one senator, in regards to his obligation to his duty as an officer....
"So Officer Lightoller", the senator quipped... "when did you find it necessary to abandon your post in order to save yourself?"
To which 2nd Officer Lightoller retorted... "I did not abandon my post sir, my post abandoned me."
For the record... Officer Lightoller did in fact go down with the Titanic.... But as luck would have it, the boiler exploded from beneath him, and rocketed him back to the surface, to which he was picked up by one of the lifeboats, and consequently saved.
This story was printed in the New York Times the following Sunday after the Titanic sinking.....
In reverence to those brave souls, who gave their lives, that fateful night, that this posting may be passed unto you...
You make your own luck.... and when it comes... be happy... be yourself.... But dont give yourself away, nor open the secrets to your heart, to anyone, save for time together that you can be sure it is safe to do so.... Or that luck could bring about rejection and depression, to which one may not find is that easily recoverable.....
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RE: Older woman dating younger man. . .
If two persons are totally in love than the following will almost most certainly NOT apply.....but there are always exceptions....Young men as they mature, have an attraction for older women, because younger women haven't matured into what they will become as they approach 40 and beyond....and conquering an older woman gives a younger man a sense of maturity within himself.... Men however, have physical needs that depend largely on physical attraction...and as that older woman ages, she loses her edge...unless she has other factors in her favor... such as independent wealth....(both genders, male and female, have individuals who will gladly succome to a carefree lifestyle, and security with which wealth brings.....)
Men, as they age and gain maturity, aquire wisdom in understanding themselves..and women.....which could cause them to stray back into youthful grounds, where their aquired knowledge gives them the confidence to seek out and maintain a hot youthful woman.... Everything has risks..and time slips away... an older woman has to evaluate those risks vs. time taking its toll on her vs. whatever else that would entice a young man to stay around as she ages.....