Dealing with hate!!

Thats life man!
Dont take it very serious.

"i have tryd killing myself 14 times due to pple that are close to me that just won't stop bringing me down in every aspect, i have been hurt mentaly and fisicaly through those around me"

The only way to feel empowered is to know that we create, whether we know it or not, our lives. If we stop blaming everything on people and circumstances "out there" and start taking responsibility for our own happiness, our lives can be full of wonderful experiences. As long as we continue to believe everything is all someone else's fault and that we are just victims we will always be miserable.

You are a valuable and infinitely appreciated Being with unlimited opportunity to make your life what you wish it to be. No one comes into this life with the intention to live it by anyone's standards but their own.

If you are over the age of 18 it is time for you to stop the blame game and start living your life in ways that bring you joy. What inspires you? Is it art, music, dancing, playing in the park? Whatever it is Do it as much and as often as you can.

And remember, the most important thing is to try to always make any action you take a win/win. Win for you and win for others.

Hotty,

This is for you.

No-Thought for the Day : "There has never been a person like you before, there is not anybody else like you right now in the whole world, and there will never be anybody like you. Just see how much respect existence has paid to you. You are a masterpiece — unrepeatable, incomparable, utterly unique. Even the hardest heart, the rock-like heart, will start melting in gratitude." Osho

There will always be people who will want to pull us down or say or do unkind things to us, but you have to find the power within yourself, to rise above this. You were given a life to live it to the best, making the best of it, do not let others control that fact or influence you to lose that gift.

Please talk to someone whom you trust and respect, there has to be at least one person in your life, worthy of that status(friend, relative, teacher etc.). Hate is a destructive emotion, please do not let it consume you. You are in my prayers.

You are well loved, Mr. Pitts. Just as you are!

Katlady - wow and u would think i'm that usless hahahaha oh please i don't need any1s money. all i asked for was advice but seeing that ur 4 eyes could read correctly i guess its understandable that u'd state such a coment.

if the shoe fits

Mr. EasyWriter, I know it's weird but I love to see your name come up.

Sound advice. Getting the feeling this one is more interested in a pity party than really helping himself. Oh well, we tried.

Best of everything to you Mr. Hotty! My wish for you is whatever you wish for yourself. Good Luck!

Ms Venus....

We have shared interesting comments together.... and I appreciate your support, in lieu of viewpoints made to which we did not agree...I realize now I was lacking foresight.... I have made a miriad of adjustments regarding those viewpoints, though I did not follow all the advice... I was hoping the sun would come back out after the clouds had disipated the view...with a new understanding of those respective differences.... Should I still follow the precautionary recipe you gave me that you wanted me to use for ridding the house of pests? or continue the passive approach to letting them die of their own accord?


I love the sunshine.... its better than clouds....

It's best we allow ourselves to have our own viewpoints, Mr. EasyWriter. None are right and none are wrong, just different. It is really fun to engage in comments on these blogs with you.

I generally feel that if the pests don't bug me, I don't try to rid the house of them. We are able to co-habitate in harmony. They have every right to live as much as I do, even if we are not compatible in some ways. As long as I have plenty of space, I'm happy.

Ms Venus- i have no intrest in pity coz thats not going to help much now would it??....every1s advice and points of view has meaning and understanding to it and i am thankfull..
yeah i think a break from every1 and everything would help and would give me some well needed rest.