Reality is not always pretty. And if living in a delusional world is the only way I can deal with it, the give me not so pretty.
If I don't like the rain, and it's raining out side, I can tell myself it's not raining, but when I go outside, I will still get wet. At least if I can admit to the existence of the rain I don't like, I can get an umbrella and stay dry. Doesn't mean I'll be happy, only dry. You tell me which is the better scenario?
There is that space between the ears and the matter that fills that space and how it is assembled and what is stored in there. I think that is the most important space of them for a LTR. Sometimes I forget that. Just a note to myself. I couldn't sleep.
lol they were much much bigger then that! And many many more! But if you saw a picture of her, you would see why I was blinded and couldn't see them. But the good news is, I can now see elephants in the dark, even with my sun glasses on
It goes back to that thing about getting older and growing and learning a few things along the way....
But I still feel like a kid who lost his puppy...
Conflict. I will gather the negative energy and reverse the polarity of it and make it a positive powerful useful force to propel me into the future!!
I promise
smittens. "believe in urself", right from your blog smittens!
smittens, I need a relationship to be truly happy. I need a woman's love like I need food and water. My most productive years have always been accompanied by a woman. When I'm alone, I loose motivation. To love a woman and be loved back gives me strength and confidence and a reason to live, to work, to push on.
I can do it alone, but it's much harder and on unhappier terms. Strait from the heart.
Do you speak any other language besides English? Isn't it in the Provence of Quebec, there is a lot of french, but west of there it's all English? I know Ontario seemed like it was all English. How about your city? Just curious.
Oh definitely it could be. Sometimes people are "tormented" and end up self medicating. Besides, I would think your loved one would have been supportive of trying to help eliminate any bad habits a partner would have.?? I would hope for that in a partner I had.
Humm, seems like a number of these blogs just disappear. It would be nice if the owner of the blog would disclose that so someone can decide how much effort to put into a response.
I got my fill of it when I was younger. Now even one beer gives me a hang over. Glad to hear your done with it. The way I see it, if a person wants a habit, there are better ones!
I met this one girl at a bar once and brought her home. No we didn't do anything but talk. In the morning when we woke up she grabbed a bottle of hard liquor and took a few big gulps I had never seen that done before, and I've seen some pretty heavy drinkers, usually men.
I have some ideas about "the real meaning of love" but I need to capitalize on the small breeze I felt the other day that caught my sail. I've been dead in the water for too long to not.
I don't think we'll ever understand the "meaning" of it. That must be tied to the meaning of life. And no one will ever know that. And if they tell you they do, well, people say all kinds of crazy stuff, doesn't make it right.
Just look at the animals. To desire love is no different then to desire a drink of water when your thirsty. Come to think of it, the longer you go without it, the thirstier you get. Until one day you die from dehydration. Yikes. There is no doubt many a broken heart have succumb to such a fate as well.
I guess the real meaning of being thirsty is to get some water. And in math, that would have to mean the real meaning of love is to get some too.
Angel, I know she's alive. Sorry it was two separate comments that looked like one. It was the woman choosing a woman that made me . I'm still having trouble getting use to that stuff. But if it makes you happy and doesn't hurt anyone else, I say go for it....
"...chiefly speculative means rather than observation in a search for truth."
I can agree on that. I'm just more of a "want answers guy". I only believe in MY reality. Beyond that, I surrender to not knowing and accepting somethings. But I can't draw concrete conclusions on things I can't prove.
RE: Cinderella Seeks Prince
and are all equal. No princess or princes. Sorry.I love myself and I am a prince! Will you date me