zandaar Blog Comments (59)

RE: men of a certain age

I can only speak for myself. I'm 53 and have no real interest in finding someone more than a few years younger. My profile says 45-50 but I should really change that. The ones that I chat to on a regular basis, and the one I am especially close to are all nearer my age.

RE: ... if you had one ...

Ladies.

If you want to know what it feels like for a guy to go shopping with you - take him to a tool store and watch his eyes light up, while the shutters come down on yours.

RE: Diagnosing . . Trusting Doctors . .

Bad joke - Doctor's can bury their mistakes.

RE: Diagnosing . . Trusting Doctors . .

Well I am fortunate that I have had the same doctor for a long time and do trust him.

Doctors are human and can make mistakes. Hopefully very few though....

The problem arises that if you can't trust your doctor then who can you turn to?

RE: T.G.I.F

Happy Friday to you.

I hate any sort of official form filling, so congrats on getting it sorted out 1st time.

RE: Searching for my soulmate...

Ah! You young folks want everything NOW!

@swiss You get guys older than 67 contacting you?

RE: Advice from men to women

WE men don't always take things easy - we are just good at making it seem that way.

RE: ... with the right accessories

Very funny.

Think I'm a lost cause in the "Hot" stakes though.

RE: There's a moose loose aboot this hoose!....

You make it all sound so beautiful and wonderful that I want to come and visit Scotland. Oh! Wait a min, I do live here.

Been over most parts of Scotland (camping)and can appreciate all that you dscribe.

RE: GIVING UP

Muhommed Ally (world famous boxer) once said "If he wasn't the worlds greatest boxer - even if he was only a street sweeper - then he would be the worlds greatest street sweeper.

Never lose sight of your dreams but also try to be the best whatever your circumstances.

I hearby declare you the

"Worlds Greatest Unemployed Single Mother"

Now live up to it.

RE: Getting Turned Down

Could not agree more.

If someone contacts you though it is always polite if you reply rather than ignore them. If they don't get the message, just block them.

RE: ugh

Go outside and scream at it as loud as you can.

RE: want to find true love

@ szeet

Fully agree with you. If you go around expecting the worst, you will never find what you are looking for.

RE: What do you think.......

If you get to know someone and become close to each other none of this may matter.

I have on my profile "no more children" so anyone who is likely to want children I don't contact. The same with some other things - if they like clubbing - I stay well away.

RE: just asking!

Have you ever heard a mother utter those immortal words -

I would die for my children...........but let the little so-and-so's embaress me and I'll kill them.


The answer to your question is - I'd like to think so but......

RE: My best friend!!!

Most of us are on here looking for various types of relationship - so should we all just be looking for friends?
The start of any long-term relationship.

RE: lover

I tell the truth and expect the same off others.

Most folk say on their profile the want/expect honesty. I would find it very off-putting if I told the truth and the other person continually disbelieved me.

A truthful person never has to remember anything - a liar has to remember all his own lies, and will get caught out.

RE: lover

I'm willing to believe anyone until I find out different.

RE: the potter and his clay

I would rather it was 2 people coming together whose future were a lump of clay. With one hand each they mould their future.

RE: broken heart.

They time heals all........

Never give up on happiness. You might as well give up on life.

Take time to grieve.In some ways it is worse than a breavement. Take stock - think - and be honest with yourself. If you think you did something wrong, or there was something you could have done better, then just resolve not to make the same mistake in future.

But, it could just be him. In which case it was not meant to be. So give yourself time, pick yourself up, and start again.

Good luck for the future.

RE: My first Kiss

What is this mother doing saying no more! She will put them into counselling for years.


Maybe though she should be worried for the girl. The boy is obviously going to "kiss and tell"

Love it really.

RE: what to do???

I’m looking for:
Someone who wants what I want, a soulmate

Theres your answer. Does he want what you want?? If not, find someone who does.

RE: men lie to women too.

A liar has to have an exceptional memory. Tell the truth and you don't need to remember a thing !!

RE: is it better to be feared, or to be loved ?? ...

I watched a news article recently.

The king of Bhutan is making a pilgrimage to visit every one of his subjects - and he is the most loved monarch of any kingdom in the world.

I would rather be loved than feared. If you want to know why think of your parents and think of your children.

RE: Wow ! Talk about 'sweet lies' lol

Sorry guys, swiss and sarya - dinner calls. Be on later.

RE: Wow ! Talk about 'sweet lies' lol

sorry jim i'm sending all my money to sarya. Some guy (gal) might love you somewhere but she's better looking. And if I'm going to spent my pocket money it will be on something worthwhile.

RE: Wow ! Talk about 'sweet lies' lol

No problem Jim - £1 well spent
(by the way you owe me $50 for the advice)

RE: Wow ! Talk about 'sweet lies' lol

@ sarya

You can ask me for anything. Your devoted servant.

RE: Wow ! Talk about 'sweet lies' lol

new e-mail addresses are 10 a penny.

I'l probably get slated for saying I have 7 regular ones - but it is a way of keeping things in different boxes.

Whe she asks for money. Hey! she may not. He might actually love you. Come to the forum for donations.

RE: I don't wanna be called " BEAUTIFUL "

Oh dear!

Only a beautiful woman can come away with a remark like that.