Say something nice , Hi everyone enjoy reading the post , some are informative, some funny, some get out of had at times, I and others I'm sure know that. Jump in say something I think most will if they have something they can contribute to the thread. If I think it might get out of hand I try not to say anything. This thread was a really nice gesture,Glad I could join in. Had to say something when I seen your comment Big John.
Yeah you know I kinda find him in the mind of comedy romantic myself and also think he doesn't give himself enough credit. .I read replies to the forums and find the both of you to be very thoughtful and upfront with your remarks.
There was another thread , I forget who started it but said Big John was leaving, he got upset she wanted to know if anyone knew his E Mail so they could tell him she was sorry.
I have never started a thread but when I see one in my state I reply. I think more would reply if something new showed at times, I look at all the threads, if I can add something to it I do.
I did just read you were married 25 years and to split after that long of a marriage with nothing wrong is hard to deal with. I do feel where your coming from and know it hurt after so long of a good marriage, we can't hold others back for sure I'm really sorry she wanted to be on her own. I do hope you find someone that exceeds what you had.
Thats it they call we feel sad and it just takes us back for a while and its a place we would like to forget. Its hard for us at that point and only added more hurt to them.
to both you and polar I read it and can feel where he is coming from I thought about making the call but wouldn't I knew if not good and had stopped talking leave it alone but a week 10 days would pass he would always show back up , if not once or twice or three times and its hard to let go but at times its best. Its a hard call. I hope whatever hes feeling he can really sort and do whats best for the both of them. WOW IS RIGHT
Glad to hear there are some of us in this world that do try and know that everything isn't like we want all the time but we married for better or worse and you take the good with the bad try to communicate and work out the not so good. Married 32 years and we both compromised I'm sure. As for the young ladies question do you lead someone on and dump them latter, I don't think so would you want that to happen to you? If your not interested in someone tell them.
My opinion is it can't be all the ladies on here, maybe you just haven't met the right one yet, keep trying someone will want to connect. It would be nice if its someone close not to far, thats what most of us might want. I for one do meet up with someone if I'm in contact with them, its the only way to know if you have a connection. Keep trying someone is out there for you.
We all like to flirt, but to know who is serious or not if hes not wanting to meet after a short while then don't take it serious. Words are just that words.Enjoy the sweet words, question them if you feel they are just a flirt, and either flirt back or don't.
I can leave it except if I'm E mailing back and forth or on IM sometimes you just keep talking and lose track of time but other than that , I can don't need to sit and just be here, there are other things in life to do also.
I'm a mother of two boys and its so nice to hear this from another man its true any man that has been taught right will say the same no one woman can take the place of there mom. Very nicely put.
I looked at your profile, so sorry the relationship broke apart, especially with a baby, you look so proud in the pictures, just try your best legally to keep in contact with your daughter, you have just as much rights as the mom. Good luck to you I think you'll find someone, and will be happy again, just make sure the person you choose will accept your daughter, and you hers if she has children.
Wish you and the young lady lots of luck . There's always someone if they love they will wait and not care about the traveling, you have a very special one, as I'm sure you know.
Its 27 in Ohio, cold snow flurries and about 2" on the ground, more to come we are sure to have a White Christmas. Don't like the cold but the snow is pretty. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays to all :santa 2:
Welcome to the site, you'll figure it out in time. You might meet some friends along the way, and when the right one comes along you'll know so have some fun and enjoy.
No I'm not a fella, but seem none want to say anything I'm sure most think same as you, from my point of view, I think a lady that wants to meet first time should expect maybe dinner or just a cup of coffee or a drink. I think its only a lets get to know each other better and go from there.Most important find a place you can talk and feel comfortable. Good Luck
With the word friends,if your implying many someone is looking for trouble if only one still don't think I would want that kind of relationship would like it to be a bit more than that just can't see hopping into bed just for the heck of it, and don't think friends do that... Sorry but my view only!
I think we all take a chance on the first date, but if the connection isn't there, no reason to pretend it will get better. End the date on a friendly note, keep looking the right one will come along.
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Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays to all :santa 2:
Sorry but my view only!
RE: Say Something Nice
Wow I did spell check and I made a mistake hand(han) whats up with Internet spell check, I guess we all make mistakes LOL