I don'r t think he has the backbone to stand up to his family, there!! I said backbone because I don't know if I'm allowed to sall "Balls"...LOL or cajones
When I realized she was very serious about him...I bought her a book on the religions of India and one on the Hindu religion and the various sects, to help her understand this person.
Hey...I'm not a nice guy..I just had a gift card for Barns and Noble, and I knew I would never use it!!
I am not allowed to have pets where I live. The dog she has, Sammy, is my dog!!. I will take the birds and hampsters!! But the cats and dogs...I can't have
well...I just off the phone with here...she is wondering who can take her pets if she goes to India! I don't think she is ready to give up!! If only she tried this hard with us!!
It does both. But I am sure Columbus was scared...Magellan was scared...Science, at it's best and worst, is scary! Until you reach for the impossible....you'll never really know what impossible is!!
thanks, guys. No..I never trusted him. But he has done some pretty convincing things. And She has been to India twice to visit him. He attended school here, where he got his degree. But if you've read my former posts about him, you know I have my reservations. He is young, handsome, a master's degree and 5-7. She is older, over 300 lbs , 5-11 and a high school grad.
not insurmountable, differences....but makes one question!!
I am feeling a little sad today...because my ex-wife's lover in India...was denied a "fiancee visa" by the American Consulate. This means she will never marry this man or she will have to go there to live. He would be ostracised in hos culture if she was to move there. Because they are not as open minded(for lack of a better term) as we are , in the West...when dealing with relationships.
They turned him down because they did not believe it was for real. The age difference was the factor. Thet refused to believe that a 31 y.o man was coming to marry a 52 y.o. woman!! Tell me again, that age is just a number!!
I am sad for her. She is so much in love with this man. And I want her to be happy!! She deserves to be happy and he does, also
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But her pain is real, none the less. I do believe in the long run...it is for the best!!
brownies are done!!
nope....and only one bed!!