Well, there's the forums, the IM, email, flowers... See, if you want more messages - put yourself out there, like you are doing right now, & join in on some of the forum discussions... and yes, it's all good to send messages to people of your interest...
Ya know... I've been thinking about my answer to this thread... and I believe I'll have to say that, in my mind, I have yet to reach my greatest life achievement.
RE: Whom would you match on CS?
Yep, me too... been playing since I was 10. My grandmother is actually a pro & used to teach....