Dating after 30 (36)
Shad0catKissimmee, Florida USA2 Threads 37 PostsI'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
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You look FINE
Mind you I don't suppose that helps coming from an old fart
Mind you I don't suppose that helps coming from an old fart
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hey in my opinion its b*llox I dont take age into account if theres a click theres a click
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Shad0cat: I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
It's in the Eye of the Beholder not the age!!!!!!------ This thread is Archived ------
gtbulldog2: It's in the Eye of the Beholder not the age!!!!!!
Or in some cases the eye of the beer holder............
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Shad0cat: I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
At 32, you still have a great chance of finding men who would be happy to date you.
Take it from me, the older you get, the worse it gets
Older men want to date younger women. Younger men want younger women or women their age.
Make hay while the sun shines
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Thats BS, I've been having more fun in my 30's and 40's than I did in my 20's!!!
And I had a pretty damn good time in my 20's!
And I had a pretty damn good time in my 20's!
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tufty: Or in some cases the eye of the beer holder............
You always make me laugh, Tufty!!
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dcj22: You always make me laugh, Tufty!!
Glad to hear it!
Your cheery grin is always infectious and spreads to this side of the pond
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Shad0cat: I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
Nonsense. Your last boyfriend is just confused. I dig women in their 40's, 30's and 20's. I see no differences, only beauty....I won't mention what else I see
Gosh I'm really bad.To be honest, I like women in their mid 30's the most.
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StressFree: Nonsense. Your last boyfriend is just confused. I dig women in their 40's, 30's and 20's. I see no differences, only beauty....I won't mention what else I see Gosh I'm really bad.
To be honest, I like women in their mid 30's the most.
To be honest, I like women in their mid 30's the most.
Sucks to be me then....lol I'm going to be 49 in June.
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Shad0cat: I'm finding myself really distressed lately. My last boyfriend who was only 3 years younger than me accused me of being too old in spite of the fact that I look years younger than him. I heard on a radio show today that Women are being lied to when they're told they're still attractive in their 30's and 40's and that it's pretty much over for us because men only want women 17-27 and if you havn't met the man you're going to marry by then you're pretty much in trouble. I've always known they like them younger, but aren't these figures just a little extreme? I'd like to think at 32 that I still have a shot at happiness and that I'm not going to go through life having to hear this kind of crap spouted to my repeatedly by people that claim they love me, but the fact remains my mailbox goes empty for days on more than a few dating sites.
Jesus, do you really believe that? My god you must have been mixing with some people more shallow than a scrape in the ground.
Don't let other people adversely affect your life or talk to you in such a way.Basically people like that are vermin and stay well clear of them.
Proof indeed the world has gone mad when 32 is considered over the hill.
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Try being in your mid 30's and having two kids....I'm just about ready to give up lol
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Shad0cat: but aren't these figures just a little extreme?
Yes, I'd say so...
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I might as well give up now then 
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Hey ShadOcat, are you a real redhead
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hrt4lse: Sucks to be me then....lol I'm going to be 49 in June.
me will be 44 in 2 months and will be getting married this year..Life goes on until ur dear..nothing is impossible..------ This thread is Archived ------
kissmedeeply: me will be 44 in 2 months and will be getting married this year..Life goes on until ur dear..nothing is impossible..
Dead
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morganlee: I might as well give up now then
Don't worrys.------ This thread is Archived ------
kissmedeeply: me will be 44 in 2 months and will be getting married this year..Life goes on until ur dear..nothing is impossible..
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