Yep, I've been associated with lots of people from lots of places, etc. - Asians included. I feel that it's more about the person, when interacting, and not necessarily where they are from, and so on. A short answer would be that I've not noticed anything way out of the ordinary in comparison to any of my other friends / associates. Maybe I just wasn't 'looking' for any kind of major differences, and the like... I'm sure we all bleed red.
To put it bluntly, either you can handle it, or you can't. If you can, then just simply do what she says and put up with the aggressiveness - accept it. Or, if you can't - look elsewhere for work, I suppose.
Speaking from experience, here... I've had a few of those types of bosses and I am one now, myself.
Yeah, I'm here mostly for the forums... I'm not necessarily (actively) 'looking' anymore, and I am still single - but I stay here on CS to procrastinate every now and then, when I can. I've no real expectations here of any sort at this time.
RE: WOULD YOU GO ON DATE WITH ABOVE PERSON ????
Sure, why not? Girls night out, baby!!!