Wow this sure has hit on a nerve with some!! no offence but this post was not to upset peeps just a curiosity to why that is all??? And i know i have made it clear in my pro that i am not interested so i dont need guidance with this one thankyou and as far as trust is concerned then that is definitely a must in any relationship i agree and that is something that is given on both sides and if no trust then no relationship!!! We both trust each other implicitly and every single guy i hve ever spoken to on here knows who i am interested in and so does Dave and that is all that matters. You got this post all wrong which makes me sad in a way cos it just shows how hot tempered peeps can get over something that was supposed to be light hearted! lol
lol well did not quite get the response i had hoped for cos i am still no better off in knowledge with an answer lol i was just curious that is all not moaning...............
Out of interest i am wondering why when you say you are now off limits and that you have met someone and are deliriously happy that guys just dont get it and continue to send you mail chancing their arm!!! lol I mean do they think the person you have talked about is not real or invisible? lol Jusst wondering anyway!
OOOOOOOOOh yes !!! i would and i will be come next summer and in the meantime he is moving here to be with me. Life is too short to miss on good opportunities of love. Never say never or no way cos .......................the little love bug just might get ya when you least expect it and then you will be eating your words. lol
Maggs so you pick yourself up and dust yourself down and you say to your self ...............that happened for a reason!! You may not want to believe it but trust me it did and when the reason comes to you ............i see a glowing smile on that pretty little face of yours.............and the memories of this person will just fade ...........fade..........fade..........trust me
merryberry...............is wondering does she help a friend in need and go round and try to undo the pasta machine to stop his typical male whining or does she take the envelope to starliteisbright!!!!...............
Ok guys how good is your imagination? I shall start the best seller and join in and add your entries and characters and mischief and see what we come up with .............ok..........
Merryberry pushed the door open to find a mountain of mail.......she sighed as she picked it up knowing fine that once again it was probably junk mail and bills.......but, just as she was about to dump most of it in the bin, one "golden" envelope caught her eye. She tore it open enthusiastically and nearly fell over when she read the contents! She ran to the phone in excitement to phone Belushi who of course was engaged on the line again...........she paced the floor waiting for his line to be free and then he answered and she said........................
I think you are going to have a fantastic time fire and if you dont i shall eat my hat!!! Have a dance for me cos Take a leaf out of the book that i gave to Crystal.......be mischievous and shine also..............
The fact that you have asked for this advise to me says you are reaching out to others and that i feel is part of what you are learning now to do SY.
You say you are stubborn therefore this without you realising it is a test for you. I sense you are absolutely devastated at the lack of response from your brothers and this is part of what has made you reach out to others. You are feeling alone and have a need, the same as your mam...........yours presently is the need to be hugged as well as comfort to lean, and that is what you are doing...........so lean my friend and when you feel you need to let the tears flow....let them flow! What you are doing is cleansing and preparing without you realising it at this moment for your future.
Without doubt you will not see past pain presently.........the pain of feeling let down and the pain you feel due to what is happening to your mother. Eventually, the pain will ease and the strength you gained during this experience will enhance you to be the person who you are going to be in the future, because in times likes these we are never quite the same.
You wont realise it immediately but eventually you will see why this has happened to you..........we never know until we are shown and then it all makes sense. This is because "everything happens for a reason".........trust me........there is no coincidence in life!! You can believe in them but they are not real...........they are there for a reason!
Your brothers do not want at this moment the responsiblity or the need to be reminded about what is happening to their mam.........in an indirect way it appears like they are being selfish and superficially this is how it is.........but you are closest to her and they see an easy escape of not having to deal with their own emotions.........but trust me one by one they will come to you when this is over and your mam is being cared for when she returns............her spiritual path has been mapped out the day she was born or even conceived and now she must continue to follow it. Through this you and your brothers will learn but in different ways and for different reasons.
I would like to give you a cyber hug as i feel at this moment you really need one! you have nothing to feel resentment for ..........because without realising it at this moment in time you are gaining something that your brothers still have to learn and that is without doubt the ability to become "selfliss".
You are not alone................when you think you are .......ask for guidance and believe me you will receive it.......trust me!
OMG OMG i am not kidding i have to go cos i cant stop lauging at youlot!!! anyway send me your addy highplains and i will post it on to you..........when you give me the real title silly......and who the heck is Lui??
right have to go guys as time is running out and i have only dont eh title slide which i think is number one on the power point.....................NIght all and take care xxxxxx
Da di da di da tum tum jjjjjjjjjjaws sore with laughin xx
That is it!!!! I am never gonna get the dam power point presentation done now cos i am stuck on the floor and will never be able to get all serious again tonight!!! Too much laughing and i hope i dont remember all this in the interview tomorrow cos i will prob burst out laughing in the middle of it......... but the moments i had on here tonight is just swell ........thanks guys xxxxxxx
Gaz i was just reading your answer and i was thinking ......awww how cute is he to be so kind and so nice thinking of me in my inerview and then i am readin the rest and thinking >>>>>>Smart........sss! You love me really!! lol
You know what Star?? i am smiling away here cos i could change the wording in what you said slightly and boy oh boy it sure woould make for good reading i think not!!! So i shall be good and say nowt!!
hahah well now youare being more sensible and not judgemental of somehthing to do with ...........i shall send you the cd god dam it like it or not................comprende!!! No licking choc off ............lol Be good !!!
WWWWWWWWWWhoooooooooHOoooooooo!!!! Highplaind you are a wee star.................. u got it man and the reason i am embarrassed is cos it looks like i have not washed myself!!! So how did the chocolate get there...........now work that one out star and Highplains addy plse for free Cd of choice.............not kidding.
Thanks guys for playing along with me cos i have an interview tomoz and i waz trying to take my mind of it and it worked ........at least for half an hour!!!
Me votes that anyone who has a miserbale face or a neg attitude be put to the chamber of smiles for the rest of their time on the planettttttttttttttt lolol and xxxxxx
hahahah so me is smelly now............i shall say this .......you are close cos it may look like poooooooooooo but it tastes like ................heaven!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gazzi gazzi gazzi ...........no no no not even close.....star with all her bright ideas is way much closer.........but one of the posts to this thread almost has the answer!! Let me just say this as a wee clue...........tis lookin like me is needin a wee wash so guess needs washing and what's to be washed offffffff
Why do guys still "chance their arm" .........lol
Wow this sure has hit on a nerve with some!! no offence but this post was not to upset peeps just a curiosity to why that is all??? And i know i have made it clear in my pro that i am not interested so i dont need guidance with this one thankyou and as far as trust is concerned then that is definitely a must in any relationship i agree and that is something that is given on both sides and if no trust then no relationship!!! We both trust each other implicitly and every single guy i hve ever spoken to on here knows who i am interested in and so does Dave and that is all that matters. You got this post all wrong which makes me sad in a way cos it just shows how hot tempered peeps can get over something that was supposed to be light hearted! loltake care
magsy xxx